22-09-2014 08:59 AM - edited 22-09-2014 09:00 AM
26-09-2014 11:43 AM - edited 26-09-2014 11:44 AM
on 26-09-2014 11:46 AM
on 26-09-2014 11:58 AM
This is an example of why i find them intimidating.
Its my opinion.
Im sure there will be those who will disagree with my opinion but disagree all you like, it wont change my opinion
At the kindy the other day i arrived at the same time as a woman wearing a niqab.
I opened the door and held it open for her. Then, as we both got to the sign in book at the same time, i said "You can go first" and smiled. She just stood there.
She said something but it was muffled by the niqab. She looked at me but i have no idea what expression she had. So we both stood there at the sign in book.
In the end i shrugged my shoulders and signed the book before her.
Later i heard her talking to the kindy teacher so i know she understood and could speak English.
IMO, facial expressions are a big part of communicating. If i cant see the face i find the situation imtimidating
on 26-09-2014 12:11 PM
on 26-09-2014 12:18 PM
on 26-09-2014 12:22 PM
on 26-09-2014 12:27 PM
@daydream**believer wrote:This is an example of why i find them intimidating.
Its my opinion.
Im sure there will be those who will disagree with my opinion but disagree all you like, it wont change my opinion
At the kindy the other day i arrived at the same time as a woman wearing a niqab.
I opened the door and held it open for her. Then, as we both got to the sign in book at the same time, i said "You can go first" and smiled. She just stood there.
She said something but it was muffled by the niqab. She looked at me but i have no idea what expression she had. So we both stood there at the sign in book.
In the end i shrugged my shoulders and signed the book before her.
Later i heard her talking to the kindy teacher so i know she understood and could speak English.
IMO, facial expressions are a big part of communicating. If i cant see the face i find the situation imtimidating
i dont think anyone will disagree that
facial expressions are important part of
the way we communicate/interact with each
other.
the thing you should be careful about is the
language you use. "confronting" seems to be
more acceptable.
last time there was a call to bank the burka:
KEVIN Rudd says burqas will not be banned in Australia, but Julia Gillard has joined Tony Abbott in acknowledging that some Australians find the traditional dress for Muslim women confronting.
on 26-09-2014 12:29 PM
@daydream**believer wrote:Im not going to get into a big discussion over it cause honestly, i cant be bothered.
It is one example, one that happened this week so its the ones thats fresh in my mind, and as i said, its my opinion
Does the school have any activities or gatherings for the mothers?
It might be nice to host some mothers only morning teas or something to facilitate the opportunity for the mothers to get to know each other. Being all women they might take off their niqabs and enjoy the company.
on 26-09-2014 12:33 PM
on 26-09-2014 12:35 PM
IMO, facial expressions are a big part of communicating. If i cant see the face i find the situation imtimidating
I'm not saying you don't have a right to your opinion daydream**believer......everyone is not only entitled to theirs, but to express them as well. Just as I feel we are all entitled to express ourselves by other means too. Religiously and culturally as well.
Since we get a lot of social cues from other peoples facial expressions, I can understand why you might feel a tad uncomfortable not being able to see someones face. But let me ask you......should your feelings of discomfort outweigh others freedom of choice? Because that's what it really boils down to. And there is always going to be something that makes 'someone else' uncomfortable....so where would it end? Once you start taking rights away from some people, it makes it that much easier to take more later. That's why I believe that everyone's rights should be protected, even if it's something that I may not have chosen for myself. In the end, everyone should be able to live and choose their paths as they see fit, not by how others feel they should live.