22-09-2014 08:59 AM - edited 22-09-2014 09:00 AM
on 29-09-2014 11:19 AM
@debra9275 wrote:is that what she'd wear to church too?
Or to court? Or to a funeral? Or to a synagogue?
on 29-09-2014 11:43 AM
i use to think churches had some kind of
dress code so when i visited cathedrals
i wore 'modest' clothing but there were heaps
of visitors wearing singlet/strapless tops and
shorts. there didn't appear to be anyone at the
door doing dress checks ???
i have also been to a couple of church weddings
where guests wore all types of dresses.
does anyone know of someone who has been
refused entry to a church these days or been asked
to leave because of how they were dressed ??
- serious question.
on 29-09-2014 11:48 AM
@village_person wrote:Myself and the g/f attended one of those mosque open days and I must say the hosts were most unfriendly. It was a most propitious event or so I thought. My g/f was wearing a pair of shorts and a bikini top. We were met at the entry by an ‘official’ who refused us entry until my g/f ‘covered up’. I told him that if we were in the M/E we would have to respect their way of dress but as the mosque was in Australia they should respect our customs and the way we dressed (on a hot day). We were quickly at an impasse; entry was ‘kindly’ refused and we insisted on observing our customs.
We didn’t take any religious bias with us. We sure as hell didn't experience the wonderful openness you seem to advocate.
How incredibly rude of you. You would have met with similar request if you would have wanted to enter synagogue or many churches. Although some churches are are nowadays so desperate to get anybody in, they might let you in topless.
on 29-09-2014 11:49 AM
Yes, I have already said I am not allowed to enter the Church in the grounds of my grandaughter's school, unless I wear a skirt or head covering.
on 29-09-2014 11:50 AM
@village_person wrote:Friendships in the muslim village are mandated not negotiated. Should you happen to be a christian or jew (2014 version) muslims are not allowed to befriend you. That instruction is straight out of the users' manual; the koran. Remember the koran? It is the book that is very important to muslims (2014 version of a muslim that is).
I am here to tell you that is quite untrue.
on 29-09-2014 11:53 AM
@azureline** wrote:Yes, I have already said I am not allowed to enter the Church in the grounds of my grandaughter's school, unless I wear a skirt or head covering.
is that church open to the public?
on 29-09-2014 11:58 AM
@***super_nova*** wrote:
@village_person wrote:Myself and the g/f attended one of those mosque open days and I must say the hosts were most unfriendly. It was a most propitious event or so I thought. My g/f was wearing a pair of shorts and a bikini top. We were met at the entry by an ‘official’ who refused us entry until my g/f ‘covered up’. I told him that if we were in the M/E we would have to respect their way of dress but as the mosque was in Australia they should respect our customs and the way we dressed (on a hot day). We were quickly at an impasse; entry was ‘kindly’ refused and we insisted on observing our customs.
We didn’t take any religious bias with us. We sure as hell didn't experience the wonderful openness you seem to advocate.
How incredibly rude of you. You would have met with similar request if you would have wanted to enter synagogue or many churches. Although some churches are are nowadays so desperate to get anybody in, they might let you in topless.
wow really?
and there was i thinking it had something
do to with progress and being welcoming to everyone.
no need to be checked in at the door.
on 29-09-2014 11:59 AM
Open to the public? well, I suppose so the doors are open when I am there.
It is the school Church, not every child in the school is of that faith but every child and their parents etc do go there for services.
on 29-09-2014 12:06 PM
I haven't been inside a church for years, but there is a Catholic church near where we live and everyone who goes in there looks to be fully dressed. When I did go to church, everyone was dressed up
Once many years ago I went to a Hare Krishna open day just to see what it was like, but I went fully dressed, (covered) so did everyone else there as a mark of respect I suppose, as it is someones place of worship (though not mine)
they had great food!
on 29-09-2014 12:08 PM
oh and there is an Anglican church near us too everyone who goes in there is also fully dressed