on 11-01-2015 07:36 AM
Is Stephen Fry's Fiance Too Young For Him?
Respected British actor and writer Stephen Fry announced his engagement on Twitter in recent days, and most comments were congratulatory until overnight there wave been more criticisms into Stephen’s partner’s age.
In a post on Twitter, Fry said: “Oh. It looks as though a certain cat is out of a certain bag…I’m very, very happy of course but had hoped for a private wedding. Fat chance!”
57-year-old Stephen Fry is set to marry 27-year-old Elliott Spencer – a gap of 30 years. The difference in age may be inconsequential to some, but it’s the fact that Elliott looks much younger than 27 that has had chins wagging.
But is it really anyone else’s business? Should it really matter how old each person is and the size of the age gap in the couple? Or is there a line?
Elliott’s parents (who are the same age as Stephen) have given the happy couple their blessing and said they were over the moon, yet some have been using this as a basis for their insults.
It begs the question – if it were a woman dating a man 30 years her junior, would there be much of a fuss? Or what about an older man dating a younger woman? I doubt it.
Instead of focusing on his gender, age or sexual preference, we can’t deny that two people in love is a beautiful thing. Stephen might actually make people realise that scrutiny over these things is not going to stop him from marrying the one he loves.
Oh Stephen...
No different to Geoffrey Edelsten, I guess, lol
on 11-01-2015 02:42 PM
Or do you think that only straight people can fall in love.
I think you've nailed it.
on 11-01-2015 02:50 PM
@the_great_she_elephant wrote:Or do you think that only straight people can fall in love.
I think you've nailed it.
I think a few other things have been nailed too
on 11-01-2015 03:15 PM
@pct001wine wrote:I guess from the other ignorant homophobic thread that there's a fair chance that Stephen Fry and his fiance are paedophiles then ?
Hm well eyebrows have been raised because young Elliot looks so much younger than his 27 years.
on 11-01-2015 03:20 PM
@youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit wrote:
@icyfroth wrote:
@the_great_she_elephant wrote:Or do you think that only straight people can fall in love.
I think you've nailed it.
I think a few other things have been nailed too
You might find that funny Icy, I call it offensive due to your ignorance.
Who are you trying to impress?
Not sure what you mean?
You think me ignorant and find that offensive?
I would've thought I'd be the one to be offended by that?
Not sure what you mean re the "impress" comment either.
on 11-01-2015 03:22 PM
@icyfroth wrote:
@pct001wine wrote:I guess from the other ignorant homophobic thread that there's a fair chance that Stephen Fry and his fiance are paedophiles then ?
Hm well eyebrows have been raised because young Elliot looks so much younger than his 27 years.
What about women with much younger husbands?
on 11-01-2015 03:23 PM
@icyfroth wrote:
@pct001wine wrote:I guess from the other ignorant homophobic thread that there's a fair chance that Stephen Fry and his fiance are paedophiles then ?
Hm well eyebrows have been raised because young Elliot looks so much younger than his 27 years.
That is simply peoples dirty minds...would they think the same if he was straight and had a girlfriend 30 years younger who looked a lot younger than her real age.
on 11-01-2015 03:30 PM
@donnashuggy wrote:
@icyfroth wrote:
@pct001wine wrote:I guess from the other ignorant homophobic thread that there's a fair chance that Stephen Fry and his fiance are paedophiles then ?
Hm well eyebrows have been raised because young Elliot looks so much younger than his 27 years.
What about women with much younger husbands?
What about them?
on 11-01-2015 03:31 PM
@youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit wrote:
@icyfroth wrote:
@youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit wrote:
@icyfroth wrote:
@the_great_she_elephant wrote:Or do you think that only straight people can fall in love.
I think you've nailed it.
I think a few other things have been nailed too
You might find that funny Icy, I call it offensive due to your ignorance.
Who are you trying to impress?
Not sure what you mean?
You think me ignorant and find that offensive?
I would've thought I'd be the one to be offended by that?
Not sure what you mean re the "impress" comment either.
Ok. I will spell it out for you.
Your post re 'I think a few other things have been nailed too
'
I call your innuendo offensive.
Do you understand now?
Ok. Well I've been accused of not having a sense of humour too, so you're not the only one.
11-01-2015 03:49 PM - edited 11-01-2015 03:50 PM
on 11-01-2015 03:55 PM
@icyfroth wrote:
@donnashuggy wrote:
@icyfroth wrote:
@pct001wine wrote:I guess from the other ignorant homophobic thread that there's a fair chance that Stephen Fry and his fiance are paedophiles then ?
Hm well eyebrows have been raised because young Elliot looks so much younger than his 27 years.
What about women with much younger husbands?
What about them?
Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't just like all other relationships, raising eyebrows shows a level ignorance