"This is for the Senior members of CS, those born before 1947. Baby Boomers and Generations X & Y are welcome providing you are over 18 ๐
But this is definitely for people who are facing the last long haul. We have survived babyhood, childhood, being teens and twenties... We have learned to read and write, to drive, have probably been married and the women have survived child birth.
The challenges are constant and the near misses of death are also there. If we have become a senior we have learned to survive so much, and along the way we have, of course, gathered a great deal of knowledge about life.
The belief that age diminishes us is not true, it changes us and not all of it is bad. Yes there can be various forms of dementia for some, but that is also a disease that can happen in younger people. Alzheimer's can also occur - it is another form of dementia and generally occurs in people over 65, although that can occur much earlier too and not everyone is going to get it.
Most of us keep our mental alertness up to the moment of death, even if we lose our hearing and our eyesight, but of course this can happen at any age too.
What changes is our physical strength, which diminishes but our mental strength and patience grows, it has to of course, to deal with this aging thing.
Arthritis, heart trouble, strokes - all these things associated with age can happen at any time in your life - arthritis can happen when you are a child but they don't like giving out new hips and knees until you are in your 50s and 60s or later. We can talk about that too.
Cancer can happen any time and that is also something we can discuss here if you like.
The point of this thread is to give the Seniors a chance to talk about how they are coping with age, the challenges it presents and the fears that can come with it... loss of hearing or sight, aging spouses, living alone, retirement villages, even death...
So I will ask that the Juniors treat us in kindly fashion and remember, all this is going to happen to you too - providing you avoid death before you get here ๐
So, onward and upward. Let's go...."
Okay folks, more memories for terra ๐
Who remembers standing for hours ironing our rope petticoats and a can of spray starch?
All skirts were full circular and had to be able to swing out more or less horizontal when we danced.
More to follow when it will let me... I FEEL CENSORED X-(
The boys wore stove pipe pants and very very sharp point shoes and swept their hair up at the front like Elvis Presley.
We didn't wear seat belts and playing 'chicken' on a deserted road was in, but not for me... it was silly.
The idea being that a car started at each end of a long stretch of road and raced towards eachother. The first one to swing aside was 'chicken'... ๐ฎ
and no, I didn't take part, it was bluddy stupid X-(
But I rode pillion behind my boyfriend on his motor bike and we, along with his friends would go for miles from Sydney to Bathurst (the races), down to Wollongong and up to Newcastle for the day.
