on 10-01-2012 06:23 AM
"This is for the Senior members of CS, those born before 1947. Baby Boomers and Generations X & Y are welcome providing you are over 18 🙂
But this is definitely for people who are facing the last long haul. We have survived babyhood, childhood, being teens and twenties... We have learned to read and write, to drive, have probably been married and the women have survived child birth.
The challenges are constant and the near misses of death are also there. If we have become a senior we have learned to survive so much, and along the way we have, of course, gathered a great deal of knowledge about life.
The belief that age diminishes us is not true, it changes us and not all of it is bad. Yes there can be various forms of dementia for some, but that is also a disease that can happen in younger people. Alzheimer's can also occur - it is another form of dementia and generally occurs in people over 65, although that can occur much earlier too and not everyone is going to get it.
Most of us keep our mental alertness up to the moment of death, even if we lose our hearing and our eyesight, but of course this can happen at any age too.
What changes is our physical strength, which diminishes but our mental strength and patience grows, it has to of course, to deal with this aging thing.
Arthritis, heart trouble, strokes - all these things associated with age can happen at any time in your life - arthritis can happen when you are a child but they don't like giving out new hips and knees until you are in your 50s and 60s or later. We can talk about that too.
Cancer can happen any time and that is also something we can discuss here if you like.
The point of this thread is to give the Seniors a chance to talk about how they are coping with age, the challenges it presents and the fears that can come with it... loss of hearing or sight, aging spouses, living alone, retirement villages, even death...
So I will ask that the Juniors treat us in kindly fashion and remember, all this is going to happen to you too - providing you avoid death before you get here 🙂
So, onward and upward. Let's go...."
on 10-03-2013 01:00 PM
Hi all, fine thanks Richo. I have spent the last few days trying to convince Husband that the bedroom and his study need re decorating. He initially said yes, then I got too confident and took him to Bunnings this morning to price paint and paper. He went off his rocker at cost. :^O I think that he suddenly realised that he would be doing the bulk of the work, so I am back to square 1. Still I haven't been married to him for nearly 50 years without learning how to play dirty when necesary. 😉 We are still waiting for first grandchilds appearance. Not surprised that it is running late, it's Dad was always late.
on 10-03-2013 01:17 PM
Glad you are OK Jean-and planning projects.
Best wishes and health for the grandie when it appears..............Richo.
on 11-03-2013 09:38 AM
morning folks......more rain!!:-x
on 11-03-2013 10:31 AM
OK gerries, comments and suggestions please. I went to the Cardiologist 6 months ago and was told to take Aspirin to thin blood. So did so. Went to the GP 2 weeks ago for blood pressure issues he told me that the Aspirin was a very bad idea to stop immediately. Did so. Went back to Cardiologist yesterday for pacemaker check and copped a round for stopping Aspirin. Now I figure that as I can't please either of them, I am going to stop Aspirin and take a glass of whisky each night instead. That should take care of both blood pressure and pacemaker. If it proves fatal at least I will go out with a smile on my face. Any other ideas?:^O
Jean, take the aspirin.... it is just tiny doses to stop blood clotting, it isn't the usual dose aspirin we all know.
It has been developed especially for people with heart trouble or in the likelihood of strokes... it thins the blood enough to keep it healthy...
In your case my dear, back on it, you Cardiologist knows what he is saying. Your GP should speak to him, not you.
Take the whisky for medicinal poiposes only 😉
on 11-03-2013 10:36 AM
Morning all, very tired over this house selling stuff... I have had an offer for $60,000 below the asking price, what on earth are the people thinking? It's bluddy insulting X-(
They keep putting in demands and orders, like they would like to move in early May, that they have only X amount of money (forget the house on the hill they built last year) blah blah blah...
The seem to forget that I am the one with the property and if they want it, they dance to my tune... grrrrrr....
Moon sorry to hear about the asthma attack.. yes good question, what made it so bad? Hope you find out.
Keep well everyone please 🙂
on 11-03-2013 10:53 AM
maybe they thought they could bluff you darki? just a first offer. Hope you made it clear that that much below asking price is not negotiable..they may come back with a better offer? It's all fun eh? NOT.
on 16-03-2013 09:05 AM
Bumpty bumpty bump
Where is everyone ??
We have been a bit busy here as that is a lot going on for Canberra's 100 birthday.
on 16-03-2013 11:04 AM
morning all. haven't been in for a bit:-D
on 16-03-2013 02:27 PM
Arvo gerries.
100 years for Canberra Grandmoon--so you were there from the start-lol.
~~~waves to Gilly-Jean-Darki-and the other posters on this thread.
Take care...........................................................Richo.
on 16-03-2013 03:26 PM
Morning all, very tired over this house selling stuff... I have had an offer for $60,000 below the asking price, what on earth are the people thinking? It's bluddy insulting X-(
They keep putting in demands and orders, like they would like to move in early May, that they have only X amount of money (forget the house on the hill they built last year) blah blah blah...
The seem to forget that I am the one with the property and if they want it, they dance to my tune... grrrrrr....
Moon sorry to hear about the asthma attack.. yes good question, what made it so bad? Hope you find out.
Keep well everyone please 🙂
Darkie, some tips from 30 odd years as an agent.
Insist that all offers be in writing from the potential purchaser.
Go to a site realestate.com.au and download a list of properties sold in your region in the last 6 months ONLY. Not sure if you have to pay for this. Look for similar size and if possible house styles for sold prices.
Use this as your base acceptance price.
Set the settlement date YOU want, It is amazing if the buyer really wants your house this is the one he will give on.
If he wants a longer settlement and if you are prepared to do so, then the buyer has to pay a higher price.
Under no circumstances agree to allow the buyer to move in after exchange of contract, even if he offers to pay rent. I know that license agreements are done, but the risk is that he may keep putting off settlement as there is no pressure on him to complete. Until he completes he has in effect both the house and money.
Most buyers will reduce the asking price of the property by 10-20% to give them an offer price.
Based on the $60k offer you received this would have made your asking price either $600,000 if he has used 10% or $300,000 if he used 20%.
This is some mythical figure that buyers seem to have come up with.
If your asking price is fair for the region, then stick to it.
Use the 6 monthly recent sales to give you a fair price and make this your counter offer.
Contrary to most buyers beliefs, you are the seller, you set the terms and you do not have to negotiate at all.
Hope this helps.