on 11-02-2014 09:40 PM
yeah, yeah, commercialized yada yada
but are you doing anything special?
on 12-02-2014 01:19 PM
OMG! Richo! My wedding night was spent at a motel in Hallam.
No chocolates or champers for us though. No rich mother either.
on 12-02-2014 01:20 PM
@amber-eyed-girl wrote:
That is exactly the type of thing that can happen. Practical jokes. Poor weather. Ratty kids who are bored and do unpleasant things.
Bride one: cheezels rubbed into her dress before the photos, big yellow stain - life altering
Bride two: no flowers arrived OMG, seriously?
Bride three: brawl in the carpark at the reception was she in it?
Bride four: tree fell on the limo while they were in the church was it her Limo?
Bride five: caught her new husband with the barmaid at the reception well, I'm guessing he wasn't going to get lucky anyway, eh?
Bride six: dress tore on a nail on the bathroom door at home morning of the wedding. Unwearable. yeah, that's a downer.
But c'mon hey!
With the exception of finding your husband with the barmaid, the rest is immaterial!
It's a wedding! Not a production! It's the day that you get to tell the whole world that you want to spend the rest of your life, and they you with the most amazing person in the world! It's the day when you commit your life to another person.
Have weddings really become that commercialized?
And all those inconveniences up there, are they really enough to detract from having the committment of forever from the most amazing person in the world? From getting to spend the rst of your life with them?
and don't forget about the pig....
on 12-02-2014 01:30 PM
Apart from the pig...lol....at the time I really wasn't thinking
'the rest of my life'.
I just wanted to get through the day, honestly,nerves,heat, people,
just wanted to throw up (but that could have been the little person
I was nuturing inside)
on 12-02-2014 01:32 PM
on 12-02-2014 03:58 PM
@imastawka wrote:Apart from the pig...lol....at the time I really wasn't thinking
'the rest of my life'.
I just wanted to get through the day, honestly,nerves,heat, people,
just wanted to throw up (but that could have been the little person
I was nuturing inside)
actually, I had a hissy fit about all the people poking and touching me.
I even had to run away from my mother just so I could have a cigarette, and she busted me and went nuts!
but it didn't take my eye off the prize - or the pig.
on 12-02-2014 04:10 PM
on 12-02-2014 04:21 PM
My sister spent months looking for the perfect white traditional wedding dress.
As she stepped out of the vintage bridal car, at the church, black grease from the hinges on the car door smeared all across the front of her dress.
She started hyperventilating. I practically slapped her and said "Forget about it! Go and marry the man you love. He's waiting for you".
She pulled herself together and walked down the aisle with her head held high.
I wonder if it was an omen? He cheated on her and they got divorced.
on 12-02-2014 04:22 PM
Oh BTW
I plan to have a lovely candle light dinner with my three cats. We plan to open a tin of Fancy Feast.
Crazy Cat Lady much?
on 12-02-2014 04:27 PM
Oh no. That is not a nice story.
candles and cats sounds like a nice night in 🙂
have a sweet Valentine's everyone😍
on 12-02-2014 09:11 PM
Anyone that would like something for a special message, help yourself or ask me to add some writing to the tag.
I have a couple more if you like, I will share them with you.
Erica ♥