I will add here because I know Gil won't and it might give people a better idea of what she is dealing with. She herself, has been in hospital for over a week. I did hope that when she returned home the problem would have been solved, but it hasn't and now she is back to worrying about the wretched woman and her two dogs.
Richo... she has really done all she can and yes, here we go again, no one can do a **bleep** thing until the woman accepts she is beyond taking care of herself and is using her neighbours to get her own way.
I just wish I lived closer and could give her a hand.
Yes happy roo the neighbours are exacerbating the problem... what would you do leave her to die and rot because you didn't want to exacerbate the problem?
there isn't an answer for gil or the other neighbour until the son can override his mother and demand she be assessed and put into care.
Gill, I know this sounds a bit callous, but is there any chance you could simply remove yourself from the situation for few weeks - go and stay with rellies or take a little holiday? Ubless you force the issue nothing is going to happen and you are going to be left doing other peoples job s for them.
.... and then come and stay down here with me for a while.. please? xx
