What are your thoughts

[crystal**flake]

On a 21 year old woman dating a 15 year old boy,,,,,,,, its wrong isn't it.

[izabsmiling]

Does she give him alcohol on these dates Crystal ?

[the_hawk*]

iza you assume you know all about what your kids get up to.

Dont be so sure that is the case, kids have many ways to fool parents.

I was a quiet shy boy with a cute smile once ]:) I still have the smile ]:) ]:)

[izabsmiling]

Hawk I'm looking at it as an adult (not a child) who has knowledgeof something happening , as I take it Crystal does of this situation in the OP ?

[meh_too]

wrong

and if it was my son I would be hitting the roof

[jonnjenn]

🙂

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Are you saying you are no longer cute hawk??]:)

Ducking fast now!

Hi by the way.

[the_hawk*]

John as you know all I have left now is the smile. 😞

[izabsmiling]

Iza you assume you know all about what your kids get up to.

Dont be so sure that is the case, kids have many ways to fool parents.

I would have to be a fool if I though kids didn't do think their parents didn't know about.

I'd also be a fool not to realise that that is a tool child abusers use and heavily rely on in order to do what they do.

I would also have to be a fool not to realise that the abuser is the one in the wrong not the child I would not be sending any message that suggests to anyone that child sexual abuse is OK as long as the parents don't know.

[azureline**]

When I was 16 I had a 15 yo boyfriend... and I was mortified when I found out his age :_|

[izabsmiling]

http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/victoria/woman-gets-no-jail-for-sex-abuse/story-fn7x8me2-1226171098222

A WOMAN who had sex with four teenage boys during a sex romp has walked free from court after being handed a suspended prison sentence.

Laura O'Donnell, 20, of Rosebud, pleaded guilty and was convicted in the County Court of four counts of sexual penetration of a child under 16 and five counts of committing an indecent act with a child under 16.

Court documents reveal she plied the boys, aged 12, 15, and two aged 14, with alcohol on three separate occasions. The first two involved one victim and the third, all four.

Documents show O'Donnell, who had trained to be a childcare worker, assaulted the boys while drunk between February and June last year in Ballarat .

Judge Sue Pullen wholly suspended O'Donnell's two-year, five-month sentence and placed her on an 18-month community-based order despite her previously breaching a similar order for an attempted robbery.

A report handed to Judge Pullen by a community corrections officer said O'Donnell repeatedly breached her 125-hour order and even failed to attend an assessment for the order she was eventually granted.

The judge attributed her offending to a troubled background, low self-esteem and alcohol abuse.

Crime Victims Support Association president Noel McNamara said the sentence was a disgrace. 

"If it was a man on those charges it would have been a different story," he said. 

[janeababe]

You would be absolutely suprised at the amount of grown men who claim they lost their virginity to the babysitter!  And, i believe its true.

This age thing with the older female is not a new concept, and if you want to walk through life with your eyes shut and your mind closed, then be my guest!.. but truth is, one day you might be faced with it, and have to deal with it in a way that WONT lose you your child!

I have walked this path.  When my eldest daughter was 16, i found out she was involved with a 21yr old, and she was skipping school to meet up with him. I hit the roof, she retailiated by running away from home to be with him.
So... i had to *comprimise* ... which was me sitting at HIS dining tabe, (which was a 1m x 2m caravan no bigger than a matchbox i might add) and i laid down some ground rules on the relationship! The first being, that she had to attend school!
so... we compromised (details i will not get into a long winded tale here)
in the end, relationship lasted about 12mths and then fizzled out.....


Crystal...  dont alienate the boy to spite the face of the girl! You wont win.
If this is happening in your own personal family, then please tred carefully, and remember that teenagers take their grievances well into adulthood. So please be careful with how this is handled.

Best of luck :-x