What's the evolutionary explanation for cougars and younger men?

[the_bob_delusion]

Go. 

[polksaladallie]

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@joz*garage wrote:

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@polksaladallie wrote:

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@joz*garage wrote:

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@polksaladallie wrote:

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@wilk1149 wrote:
Exactly Helen. It's all about looks in those relationships. Good looking people sleep with good looking people. The odd ugly gets laid by a good looking person now and then mainly due to alcohol

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Rubbish.  It's for more than looks that is involved in any friendship.

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erm, as a young lad going out with older woman, looks..was everything!

and friendship wasnt in either of our minds

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For it to continue, it has to be there.  For a one night stand, no, but we're not discussing that, are we?

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nope, it can purely be for lust

for instance, one of my bother-in-laws bother, good looking fellow not so bright up top... sexual relationship went on for years. she would not tag him along for any social gathering. & he didnt complain

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Of course it is lust.  No-one is arguing that.  Who is talking about social gatherings? 

[siggie-reported-by-alarmists]

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@polksaladallie wrote:

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@joz*garage wrote:

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@polksaladallie wrote:

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@joz*garage wrote:

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@polksaladallie wrote:

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@wilk1149 wrote:
Exactly Helen. It's all about looks in those relationships. Good looking people sleep with good looking people. The odd ugly gets laid by a good looking person now and then mainly due to alcohol

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Rubbish.  It's for more than looks that is involved in any friendship.

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erm, as a young lad going out with older woman, looks..was everything!

and friendship wasnt in either of our minds

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For it to continue, it has to be there.  For a one night stand, no, but we're not discussing that, are we?

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nope, it can purely be for lust

for instance, one of my bother-in-laws bother, good looking fellow not so bright up top... sexual relationship went on for years. she would not tag him along for any social gathering. & he didnt complain

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Of course it is lust.  No-one is arguing that.  Who is talking about social gatherings? 

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 She was too embarassed to be seen with him.

[joz*garage]

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@polksaladallie wrote:

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@joz*garage wrote:

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@polksaladallie wrote:

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@joz*garage wrote:

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@polksaladallie wrote:

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@wilk1149 wrote:
Exactly Helen. It's all about looks in those relationships. Good looking people sleep with good looking people. The odd ugly gets laid by a good looking person now and then mainly due to alcohol

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Rubbish.  It's for more than looks that is involved in any friendship.

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erm, as a young lad going out with older woman, looks..was everything!

and friendship wasnt in either of our minds

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For it to continue, it has to be there.  For a one night stand, no, but we're not discussing that, are we?

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nope, it can purely be for lust

for instance, one of my bother-in-laws bother, good looking fellow not so bright up top... sexual relationship went on for years. she would not tag him along for any social gathering. & he didnt complain

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Of course it is lust.  No-one is arguing that.  Who is talking about social gatherings? 

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you were talking about friendship

friends involve each-other in outings and social gatherings

what im saying is some older woman 'knock-outs' prefer a relationship of conveinience, & of course young blokes are happy to oblige

and their addiction to each-other might get confused with romance

when they simply just want  physical intimacy

[polksaladallie]

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@joz*garage wrote:

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you were talking about friendship

friends involve each-other in outings and social gatherings

what im saying is some older woman 'knock-outs' prefer a relationship of conveinience, & of course young blokes are happy to oblige

and their addiction to each-other might get confused with romance

when they simply just want  physical intimacy

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friends involve each-other in outings and social gatherings

Not in a older woman younger man relationship.  If it is to continue, friendshsip is a must, but outings are not necessary at all.

[j*oono]

This thread seems to have turned rather sleazy.

[joz*garage]

yes there is sleaz on both sides of the spectrum

[icyfroth]

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@j*oono wrote:

This thread seems to have turned rather sleazy.

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Is that why you've decided to join in? 

[the_great_she_elephant]

And from then on they should forever hold their piece if it occurs to them.

Or ask their cougar to hold it for them.