Why do women choose to be Muslims?

I know no one here are really ridgey didgey Muslims. But I'm just curious how women rationalize choosing Islam as a guide to life??? If you were in their shoes, how would you justify it? 


WHat does Islam provide these women that other religion can't??? Islam is the fastest growing religion even in Western countries. THere must be something attractive about it for women. 


I'm not talking about women who are indoctrinated as kids and brainwashed but women who have the option of choice later in life. 


I just want to hear logical and rational reasons why YOU THINK these women choose to become the whole hog of burkas/hijabs wearing muslims??

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Nuns are different because they remain celibate, don't marry, have no children. I don't think you compare them with Muslim women, except for the fact they both wear head coverings and follow a religion. Muslim women can get high up jobs in business etc, nun's teach in Catholic schools, do nothing outside the church basically.



 


Neither Catholic Nuns or Priests have to be celibate unless they want to be Bishop. It is a discipline they can choose, it is NOT doctrine.


Some people can go their whole lives and never really live for a single minute.
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Another question that could be asked is - do these people (men or women) who convert to Islam have an other religion that they followed or were brought up in before they converted to Islam? Or have the got to be adults and followed no religion at all before.?



 


but wouldn't that be deviating from the OP?


 


I distinctly remember you telling me that you preferred to discuss the specific subject of the OP - that was in the suicide thread.


Some people can go their whole lives and never really live for a single minute.
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Where have I said I am against the supernatural?


 



 


 


miracles = supernatural


 


see your post above.


 


 


 

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why does it have to be reserved only for the sick or the elderly.


 


Because this thread was raised on the topic of rational suicide (for elderly people as in the link provided) and that is what we were discussing. I prefer to keep within the limitations of that.


 


 



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I am sure Bob will tell me if he doesn't approve of me expanding a bit on his original question.. he is not shy in coming forward.


 


I am interested in the original question in the opening post. Is it to far out to post I wonder if the people that convert to Muslim as adults, had a religion of their own before they convert? The answer to that could be one answer the OP's question (the women may choose to be Muslims because they were dissatified with the prior religion they had been brought up in or fell into in adulthood and looking for something else they found Islam).


 

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Neither Catholic Nuns or Priests have to be celibate unless they want to be Bishop. It is a discipline they can choose, it is NOT doctrine.



 


So they choose it, their lives are not comparable to  women who chose to become a Muslim.

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For what it's worth Bob, here is some more information for you.  Hope it answers your questions:


 


http://wechooseislam.wordpress.com/


 


 


This website is dedicated especially to our not-yet-Muslim friends, so that they can learn from their friends’ experience of converting to ISLAM. The compilation of articles and videos in this website is based on their true stories published in various sources of books, magazines, websites etc. I hope this tiny effort can be an opening door for those who are interested in knowing about ISLAM, to unfold further and seek the truth of ISLAM.

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I wonder what percentage of western women converted to Islam in order to marry a Muslim.


Islam is a strict patriarchal culture/religion, not matriarchal like Judaism.

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Nuns are different because they remain celibate, don't marry, have no children. I don't think you compare them with Muslim women, except for the fact they both wear head coverings and follow a religion. Muslim women can get high up jobs in business etc, nun's teach in Catholic schools, do nothing outside the church basically.



 


Beg to differ. Some nuns have been married and then entered the order after realising marriage wasn't for them. And they do far more than teach. They are social workers, nurses, administrators etc etc.


 


Nuns entered the convent for many reasons over and above their wish to serve. It was expected of them by their families. They had problems in their lives. They didn't believe they could live their lives without the structure of the convent. And so on. It wasn't just about religion.


 


 

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A lot of people, both male and female, convert to Islam because of disillusionment over western society - consumerism, superficiality, and anything-goes sense of morality, etc. They like the simplicity and stability that Islam offers. They like the clear black-and-white distinctions between right and wrong. Women often like the clearly defined roles for men and women in Islam. They don't see it as oppressive but liberating. They believe Muslim women have been wrongly portrayed in the media. They like the high value Islam places on family and motherhood. They reject the stereotypical portrayals of Islam in the western press.


 


Some convert to Islam because they reject Christianity. The complexity of Christianity, with it's three-headed God and its fully divine human being, doesn't make sense to them. They prefer the simplicity of Islam, which to them makes much more sense. I read quite a few conversion stories where women (and men) were sick of the hypocrisy of whatever form of Christianity they were raised in.


 


Since this mass conversion of women to Islam often stems from disillusionment over the religion and society they were raised in, and since this is a relatively new phenomena, it is my belief (or hope anyway) that after they have been immersed in Islamic culture for a while, they will eventually begin to see the negatives of that too, and that same disillusionment that led to their embrace of Islam will lead to their eventual rejection of it.


 


All these people converting to Islam is mostly a post-911 phenomena. Ever since then, people have been curious about Islam, and many have converted. This is sad IMO. A terrible act of terrorism has, as it's net effect, made Islam MORE popular in the west instead of less popular. Apparently terrorism works in the long run 😞

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