Why do women go for bad boys and then act surprised when they're

[the_bob_delusion]

treated like **bleep**? I'm talking about those who have a know history of violence and abuse and cheating yet these women voluntarily choose them. 

Discuss.

[countessalmirena]

@4channel, I'd like to proffer suggestions:

Kudos-bearer, kudos-giver, kudos-bestower, kudos-clicker. You could even use kudosser along the same lines as your previous notion.

<--- kudos-bestower.

[4channel]

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@davewil1964 wrote:

I have never posted novels, much less reposted them to correct a typo.

As far as your lack of understanding of English, I doubt I can educate you on that. And no, I won't be engaging with you off-board. We have nothing to discuss.

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Novels? 

OK, if you don't want to have a constructive private discussion with me then all I can do is wish you healing. I hope some day a positive thing will be with you and you will embrace positiveness, compassion and truth.

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@countessalmirena wrote:

@4channel, I'd like to proffer suggestions:

Kudos-bearer, kudos-giver, kudos-bestower, kudos-clicker. You could even use kudosser along the same lines as your previous notion.

<--- kudos-bestower.

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Gosh you pop up at the most unexpected times countessalmirena. No, I'll go with kudoer. I was hoping that it might not be that common and I have brought it in to vogue but a search brings up many uses of it.

BTW: The book Love Me Sailor and another that I have forgotten the title of which was a biker one are good examples of women being attracted to men that were not that good for their health.

[johcaschro]

. . . examples of women being attracted to men that were not that good for their health.

Well maybe there'll be some sort of evolutionary selection thingo so that this behaviour trait might, in the long term, be a dying one?

[davewil1964]

I hope some day a positive thing will be with you and you will embrace positiveness, compassion and truth.

I have an overflowing amount of those. You demonstrably don't. Unless, of course, your online persona doesn't relate to your true feelings. There's a term for that.

[the_bob_delusion]

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@countessalmirena wrote:

Roots matter. (I speak not of gardens!)

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Are you implying Bad boys are better in the sack? Any evidence they're more generous in bed than nice guys?

[the_bob_delusion]

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@johcaschro wrote:

. . . examples of women being attracted to men that were not that good for their health.

Well maybe there'll be some sort of evolutionary selection thingo so that this behaviour trait might, in the long term, be a dying one?

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But bad boys will spread their seeds far and wide. Why?  Because these women let them over and over again. Hence wouldn't you expect this behavioural trait to propergate more and more? 

[countessalmirena]

Etymological roots, Bob!!!!!!

Look what you’ve done; I’ve used up a week’s worth of exclamation marks!

As to what makes a man good at horizontal lack of social distancing... it is certainly not an overbearing or criminal or violent nature or pattern of behaviour. Not in my opinion. Perhaps some women equate rudeness and violence with strength. Strength and confidence may well be factors in what makes a male attractive. To me, rudeness and violence are symptoms of something that’s gone amiss, something due to a kind of weakness, not strength.

[domino-710]

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@4channel wrote:

Reply re-done with typo correction for domino? and their kudoer.

What's with this ' unhealthy ' obsession with kudos. 

[domino-710]

[icyfroth]

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@domino-710 wrote:

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@4channel wrote:

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

Re: Why do women go for bad boys and then act surprised when they're treated like **bleep**? I'm talking about those who have a know history of violence and abuse and cheating yet these women voluntarily choose them. 

Discuss.

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Partly because some never learn. I once read a book called Love Me Sailor by Robert Close. The story mentioned women who were boyfriends of sailors who would proudly sport a black eye. There probably was a culture back in the 30''s 40's and  50's  like that.  It would have been part of the ship girl scene were certain women were the lovers of sailors who would come in to port. They werren't all prostitutes. Some were kept-women and they looked real classy. No doubt some would get beaten up by their boyfriends.

Nowadays the bad boy and their chick scene is different. I've known a couple of ladies that had bad boys in the past. Thinking about it some, I know a couple more. Partly what has happened to these ladies in childhood paves the way for their relationship choices in later life as well as making them visible to the eye of a certain male who is on the look out for these susceptible ladies. The craving for something exciting and the rough guy on the motor bike is the short term fix for some ladies. At some stage it all comes tumbling down and the wounded lady picks herself up only to have it happen again at some stage down the track with another bad boy.

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Oh brother.

Enough said.

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Oh goody - it found something to pick on...

b'gaaaark...