Reply re-done with typo correction for domino? and their kudoer.
@the_bob_delusion wrote:
Re: Why do women go for bad boys and then act surprised when they're treated like **bleep**? I'm talking about those who have a know history of violence and abuse and cheating yet these women voluntarily choose them.
Discuss.
Partly because some never learn. I once read a book called Love Me Sailor by Robert Close. The story mentioned women who's boyfriends were sailors, who would proudly sport a black eye. There probably was a culture back in the 30''s 40's and 50's like that. It would have been part of the ship girl scene were certain women were the lovers of sailors who would come in to port. They werren't all prostitutes. Some were kept-women and they looked real classy. No doubt some would get beaten up by their boyfriends.
Nowadays the bad boy and their chick scene is different. I've known a couple of ladies that had bad boys in the past. Thinking about it some, I know a couple more. Partly what has happened to these ladies in childhood paves the way for their relationship choices in later life as well as making them visible to the eye of a certain male who is on the look out for these susceptible ladies. The craving for something exciting and the rough guy on the motor bike is the short term fix for some ladies. At some stage it all comes tumbling down and the wounded lady picks herself up only to have it happen again at some stage down the track with another bad boy.
