on โ08-12-2014 08:33 AM
on โ08-12-2014 10:06 PM
@grandmoon wrote:
@lal-au0 wrote:the lack of respect for women.
men thinking that if i talk to them, even when i MADE IT CLEAR that i am happily married to that guy over there, think that they can touch me all over my body.
i am appalled by the behaviour of men here.
I don't know where you go to socialize but where I go the men respect the women.
Same.
on โ08-12-2014 10:07 PM
lal
If they want to get physical, accomodate them.
High heels on the foot hurt like b uggery.
Warn them that if they touch you again, they might regret it.
And learn where the kidneys / liver are, even a slight stab with the fingers hurts (dull aching pain)
and a even a gentle whack or elbow in them will put most people down.
Or get your husband to look after you ??
on โ08-12-2014 10:08 PM
on โ08-12-2014 10:36 PM
I should have used the word "poke", better than whack.
Don't poke them too hard, you can do serious damage
OR, you could just use the "Squirrel grip", I can guarantee that it will focus their mind on what you are saying !
Men tend to rate that part as quite precious
on โ08-12-2014 11:16 PM
so you suggest that it's my fault going to the wrong places?
so it's ok for men to sexually harass women, and if a woman gets harassed it's her own fault for going to the wrong places?
sounds like the "you asked to be raped cos you wore a mini skirt" argument.
that "wrong" place for information is a normal pub.
what sort of knuckle dragging society is it where my man has to look out for me?
i do not wear high heels.
can't you see what you are saying?
it's the men who should behave like human beings not the women who have to wear a burqa to not attract unwanted attention.
i have the right to go to a pub drink my beer and talk to other people WITHOUT having to expect strange men to touch me all over.
you defend those men as if it was ok to do so because it's my fault even entering the pub.
yes, i would like to go to places where women are respected but sadly it's a long way travelling 20 000 k's just to go to a pub unmolested.
on โ08-12-2014 11:18 PM
@aps1080 wrote:
lal
If they want to get physical, accomodate them.
High heels on the foot hurt like b uggery.
Warn them that if they touch you again, they might regret it.
And learn where the kidneys / liver are, even a slight stab with the fingers hurts (dull aching pain)
and a even a gentle whack or elbow in them will put most people down.
Or get your husband to look after you ??
i have arrived at a point where i would go to jail for a looooong time if i lived out my feelings/fantasies.
i would prefer if men didn't behave like cavemen.