Well, it is a very common scam (buyer overseas, wants to send it to a relative here but payment method is not working) has been done to death by scammers
Of course being common does not mean it is *this* time
It sounds like it
Have you completed sign up to Managed Payments and been given the go ahead to start selling, and read up on the changes since you last sold on eBay
If not, that was cause you all kinds of issues
Aside from this buyer being for real or another scammer
