Extortion attemtp

I have a buyer who has addmited at first contact, that they have damaged the item I have sent them, themselves.  It's clearly there in the ebay message. 

 

They then asked if they could return it at my expense, but I said I am happy for them to send the item that is now used/damaged by them (I know, I know, I should have said, you broke it, its your problem, right from the begining.  I'm just too nice) , but it has to be at their expense as per our returns policy on the listing. 

 

They refused to pay the postage themselves, even though its in our return policy, so they opend a return request saying that the item was defective (this is a change in story, as they clearly said initially, they damaged it themselves).

 

Now as per the retur request our only thee options are to; offer partial refund / buyer keeps item,  offer full refund / buyer keeps item, or contact buyer, which im getting nowhere with.  They no longer want to work with me outside the return request.  I have the evidence that it was working when they got it, and that they broke, it clear as day in the messaging thread. 

 

They are now trying to extort me into giving them the item AND a full refund for the item AND I loose the postage that I have had to pay and cant recover because of ebays "free postage" option. 

 

I have left it to them that I refuse to be railroaded into their return request for the "defective" item when there is clear evidence and admission, that they broke it them selves by forcing a different brand attachement into it, and I have said I'm still happy to give them a refund if they post it back to me.

 

Does anyone have some advice on what to do now? Will ebay favour the buyer regardless?

 

Cheers in advance.

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Yep, money has not been taken from me, and still have 100% feedback.
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Yep, money has not been taken from me, and still have 100% feedback.

Yet. If eBay continue to refund online shoplifters, then you and all other sellers WILL pay more to cover the loss.

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Further to all this I checked the sellers listings a week later and guess what?  There was the item listed on their own listings complete with the pictures and content coppied accross from my own listing!!!  I callled ebay and they said they would look into it, but could not tell me the outcome because of privacy.  I then also filed an inapropriate listing report, and the item remained up there for a couple of weeks then was sold!!! Yep the buyer is always right, and then they can steal and resell and get away with it.  I am still astounded to this day!  I come accross people all the time who are a bit worried about buying high priced items on ebay, and I tell them if they pay by paypal, they have not a thing to worry about!  I use this blatant theft as an example. It was black and white in the messaging that they admitted to causing the issue with the product, and they still got a refund, got to keep it, and was allowed to re-sell it!!!

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*shakes head* Incredible... didn't happen to me but it annoys the begeezus out of me.

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@itncseconds wrote:

Further to all this I checked the sellers listings a week later and guess what?  There was the item listed on their own listings complete with the pictures and content coppied accross from my own listing!!!  I callled ebay and they said they would look into it, but could not tell me the outcome because of privacy.  I then also filed an inapropriate listing report, and the item remained up there for a couple of weeks then was sold!!! Yep the buyer is always right, and then they can steal and resell and get away with it.  I am still astounded to this day!  I come accross people all the time who are a bit worried about buying high priced items on ebay, and I tell them if they pay by paypal, they have not a thing to worry about!  I use this blatant theft as an example. It was black and white in the messaging that they admitted to causing the issue with the product, and they still got a refund, got to keep it, and was allowed to re-sell it!!!


It might have been more topical to report back last April, rather than this February.

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Smiley Surprised  This is the OPs first visit back to the boards since he started the thread.Smiley Wink

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had a scammer try to say a refund hadnt been paid despite all of the transactions being recorded on paypal..and this buyer wasnt an ebay newb..point is keep all of your records..they backed down immediately after they knew the facts..never ceases to amaze just how far people push the envelope..
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