@joethenuts wrote:
i dont ask anybody to do anything they dont want to nobody has to answere a post , everything has a reason and i will let posters knoew tomorrow why i asked this question
It was a loaded question, though - that is undeniable and more than evident in how you responded to the questions which were attempting to clarify the options you were providing. And the connection to another thread was immediately obvious IMHO.
Not only was it a loaded question, but when pressed, you continued to restrict the options (why ask what a seller would do if you don't give them the option to actually tell you what they would do? If I would upgrade the postage, why tell me I can only choose standard postage?). That made the thread smack of manipulation (as in, steering posters towards specific results, but not in a particularly subtle or clever way mind you, and you may well find that's why people have responded negatively to it. No one wants to participate in crude social experiments. Maybe you don't realise that's how your posts came across (at least, they did to me) and it's all a misunderstanding on my part, but I choose to remain suspicious of your motives.
On top of that, when I mentioned that I would respond to the situation in a way that was outside of your prescribed options, - though you did say you respected my answer - you also implied I was a fence-sitter. Not really sure how that works, my actions would actually be decisive, they just didn't match the ones you set out.
