on 08-06-2013 10:31 PM
on 08-06-2013 10:39 PM
As with any "Pick up" item you have the right to refuse to pay for an item that is not as described. Don't worry, the seller can not take it any further. Sounds like a dodgy seller to me anyway.
on 08-06-2013 10:44 PM
Thanks! I feel confident that I'm not in the wrong too but just wanted to check, I don't purchase things expecting amazing things condition wise but these were beyond useful... The pictures had to of been taken months previously!
i don't mind if she leaves me neg feedback.. I've had good feedback in past as buyer and seller and am happy to add to her comment explaining why.. she is only a new seller and perhaps not aware or the really shocking condition of her items. such a shame though as these were being bought for a special needs daycare and the kids would of loved them!!
on 08-06-2013 10:46 PM
Sellers cant leave negative feedback.
on 08-06-2013 10:58 PM
Is there a written bit in eBay Policy that states that I have the right not to follow through if condition is not as described do you know? I can't find it although in the past I've never had a problem with a seller like this?
on 08-06-2013 10:58 PM
It sounds like you had good reason for not going ahead with the transaction, but I'm presuming by 'take it further', the seller means they will open an Unpaid Item dispute, which they still might.
I would contact them and ask them to send you a mutual cancellation, hopefully they will as that will credit them any fees charged on the sale price and end the transaction.
If they go ahead with a UPI dispute, and it remains unpaid (as I assume it will), neither party will be able to leave the other any kind of feedback once it's closed, and if you get a strike, you should be able to appeal and have it removed.
on 08-06-2013 11:06 PM
Thanks for that info! And if it turns nasty what about my options of reporting her? Years ago it was as simple as leaving negative feedback for each other and it someone.. If we have an unpaid item dispute (that she initiates) can I then open a dispute against her for misleading listing? Just seems a bit unfair that regardless of whether I get a strike or not, she gets to carry on with no negative feedback from me?
on 08-06-2013 11:07 PM
The auction only finished yesterday so the seller could do a "second chance offer" to the next highest bidder if they really think the items are usable so maybe suggest that to the seller and tell them you will agree to a mutual cancellation so that the sco can proceed.
on 08-06-2013 11:12 PM
Unfortunately in these circumstances, your hands are a bit more tied than usual. You can report a seller for non-performance, but although eBay makes a note of such reports, they don't seem to have much - if any - effect. If an item is paid for, the options are a bit more broad, but even though you have a perfectly legitimate reason for not paying and it's no fault of your own, what you can do is rather limited.
I personally think in these circumstances a reasonable seller would agree to the cancellation, but some will go through the UPI no matter what to protect their feedback and/or guarantee that their FVF is credited back, so even though it looks and feels like something aggressive towards the buyer (and I suppose in some cases it is), often it's more about the feedback and fees rather than the buyer.
on 08-06-2013 11:17 PM
Can you tell seller you would prefer them to obtain up to date photos of item so they can see for themselves? (while asking for a cancellation)