Are heated discussions interpersonal disputes?

In my view there is a vast difference between passionate debate (heated discussion) and interpersonal dispute.

 

I agree that interpersonal anything should be given the chop but discussions that adhere to the rules of debate and address the issue are NOT interpersonal in their nature

 

Without debate society would still be in the cave.

 

Moderators may I make a suggestion? ............Thank you.

 

Do not be too hasty in your judgement as to what constitutes an "Interpersonal Dispute".

 

In a lot of  cases interpersonal disputes are veiled so as to appear innocent the do not get the proper treatment that they so richly deserve. I realise that Lithum moderators are only noobies to this site and are not aware of the forum dynamics as yet, let us hope that the learning curve gets accelerated as time passes.

I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.
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guess we know where those mushrooms were raised, eh?


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They tell me that the best and fattest mushrooms come from Labor heartland 🙂

 

I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.
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@poddster wrote:

They tell me that the best and fattest mushrooms come from Labor heartland 🙂

 


 

That would be true if Labor's heartland was North Sydney."A chocolate mint, Mr Creosote?"
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Let's lighten the mood.

 

 

just for you, spot...

 

 

 

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and one for me, why not 🙂

 

poddster won't mind...Crikey didn't much like the last one. So to avoid heated discussion, here is a not-evil pic.

 

 

 

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Buttercup: You mock my pain! Man in Black: Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.
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Oh, and Crikey, I will not believe you if you say you went to school with him.


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@amber-eyed-girl wrote:

Let's lighten the mood.

 

 

just for you, spot...

 

 

 

image.jpg


 

Beautiful.If it wasn't for her and George Antheil,we wouldn't have Bluetooth.All hail Hedy 🙂

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@amber-eyed-girl wrote:

and one for me, why not 🙂

 

poddster won't mind...Crikey didn't much like the last one. So to avoid heated discussion, here is a not-evil pic.

 

 

 

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are you kidding?

 

I thought the lady was beautiful....

 

but as for him

 

vomit toilet.gif

 

 

 

and go to school with him???

 

huh???

 

now you're just rubbing it in cos you went to school with Klim, eh?


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Just as reliable as voices on the internet tend to be, though...a lot of chatter and noise with little truth.

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 I hope the mods read this thread Pod.

 

The forums are a wasteland, desolate, bereft of any debate, no argument brooked?? even if it is an intellectual to and fro between differing opinions.

 

I have heard the UK boards are nearly deserted, I know one had joined Aus CS in desperation.

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