OMG you peeps are ebil ๐ฎ :^O ]:)
We did end up having a kind of talk last night at 2am. We both couldn't sleep and ended up sitting outside. I say a 'kind' of talk. He seems to be off the planet. He's mumbling, he looks into the distance, he has an attention span of a nat. He still has it bad for his Lady Skank. He says she wont let him break it off. ๐ Gee, why don't I have that power? :^O
I told him she was using him blah blah blah but he obviously didn't want to hear it. In a way I feel sorry for him. I see him spiralling downwards. ๐
I get the feeling talking about this affair with him just makes the situation worse so I'm taking the advice mentioned here and will stop talking about it. Thank you for helping me understand why he was keeping his moving date secret. I was thinking he was doing it to be cruel. Now I understand he was shirting his pants cos now he can't back out.
I'm trying not to think about the future in negative terms. If I start to go there I start panicking and feeling scared. I keep chanting and visualise myself happy.
