Cat_mioux's new home

[cat_mioux]

:^O

[**meep**]

Do not do anything out of pity!!!!


So he is taking the lounge?

Get a couple of beanbags B-)


You must have gotten the same deal as us with
the smaller free TV....It will do you for a while, nothing
wrong with it at all.

[thebraff]

Hello Ms Cat. Happy day to you.

No need to talk of Mr No Nads Drongo Nat.

[small_creeps_friend]

Awwww Carol, your kitty looks cute, he looks like he's got his bib on ready for dinner.

Yeah.......NoNad Sweetbreads (Rocky Mountain Oysters) ]:)

[small_creeps_friend]

🙂

Oh and BTW the cat's a She. 😉

[**meep**]

I'm trying not to think about the future in negative terms.


You shouldn't do that under any circumstances, you never know what's around the corner. Waste of energy panicking about something that may never be. Deal with it when it comes and you will find that you will cope just fine.

You have to watch Kung Fu Panda

Po: Maybe I should just quit and go back to making noodles.

Oogway: Quit, don't quit? Noodles, don't noodles? You are too concerned about what was and what will be. There is a saying: yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the "present."

[cat_mioux]

You shouldn't do that under any circumstances, you never know what's around the corner. Waste of energy panicking about something that may never be. Deal with it when it comes and you will find that you will cope just fine.

You have to watch Kung Fu Panda

Po: Maybe I should just quit and go back to making noodles.

Oogway: Quit, don't quit? Noodles, don't noodles? You are too concerned about what was and what will be. There is a saying: yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the "present."

:-x And in Buddhist terms what we do today makes causes for tomorrow. This is why today is a precious gift.Thank you Eve.

Oh I know I'm easily sucked into feeling sorry for him. I'm a generous person and hate seeing others in distress because it distress's me.

I have to keep reminding myself he's a big boy who has made his choices and has to live with them.

I rang the estate agent and they are posting the relevant forms for us both to fill in and sign to have the lease and bond money transferred into my name.

I'm happy with the deal we made - He gets to keep paying off the TV, I get to keep all the bond and I'm more than happy to have the smaller TV.

My daughter brought around her double air mattress for me to sit on until I can afford a lounge. 😄

[piggylulu61]

Hi Cat, you're sounding great! Use the anger to make yourself even stronger:-)

Oh I know I'm easily sucked into feeling sorry for him. I'm a generous person and hate seeing others in distress because it distress's me.


....and of course, he knows this & is using that knowledge to manipulate you if he can. Don't allow him to do that.
IMO, he is getting off extremely lightly!

[**meep**]

Oh I know I'm easily sucked into feeling sorry for him. I'm a generous person and hate seeing others in distress because it distress's me.

And naturally, there is nothing wrong with that as long as it doesn't stop you from staying focused.

As I mentioned before, I couldn't get on with my life because I was worried about my ex (boyfriend). It took me literally years until I finally convinced myself that I couldn't be responsible for everyone that is or has been part of my life. I just don't want you to be 'stuck'.

[cat_mioux]

....and of course, he knows this & is using that knowledge to manipulate you if he can. Don't allow him to do that.
IMO, he is getting off extremely lightly!

Once again great insight piggylulu! wow of course he is manipulating me by triggering my good nature and using it against me.

Eve I won't remain stuck when I have the Wise Women of CS keeping me firmly in reality!

[**meep**]

WWoCS - I like that!