Cat_mioux's new home

[cat_mioux]

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[my2cuddlycats_not]

(((((((((((((Cat)))))))))))))

You are a strong woman, this is just a small bump in your road to inner peace and happiness....... don't play his games, ignore ignore ignore.

I wish you could have some-one stay with you, too, while this is going on, would mean he couldn't play his games, because there would be a witness and he won't be able to come out of it all squeaky clean, like he is trying to do.

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

[judyfidella]

Catty, expect to be needled, expect provocation.
He only has ten days left to convince himself he was justified, and that he isn't losing anything.
SOooooo- you have ten days where, if you can dredge up a bit more iron self-control, you can plant some seeds of doubt and really mess with his mind.
But if you vent to him, you will be making life easier for the pillock.
Good luck! If you can get a friend around to watch fair play, that would be good. If you can avoid his company by going to the pictures of out somewhere- anywhere- that will help a bit.
You need an "advent calendar" for the countdown!
Maybe make one of your own.:-x

[freddie*rooster]

G' Morning :-x

Welcome to the new singles♥

Catty, he's playing you for a fool, what a DH. Sounds very much like he wants you to tell the skanks OH because she won't, this is interferring with nonads hopes of setting up cosy homes with the skank, he wants you to be the evil person in the skanks eyes.

He needs to go buy a tennis ball if he wants to play games.

The pair of them deserve each other X-(

Braff - the chimp looks like the pope :^O

[cat_mioux]

I agree if there was another witness to his behaviour he'd act all Mr Nice Guy but there isn't anyone that could stay with me and I certainly wouldn't put my daughter or son through this.

I also agree he's trying to make me the 'psycho' one.

I'm going to sit and chant for as long as I can this morning before work. I didn't chant yesterday for the first time in 7 weeks.

Thank you thank you for being here for me.

[puddleback]

OK MsKitty let's start the countdown.......

TEN......

[cat_mioux]

Catty, expect to be needled, expect provocation.
He only has ten days left to convince himself he was justified, and that he isn't losing anything.
SOooooo- you have ten days where, if you can dredge up a bit more iron self-control, you can plant some seeds of doubt and really mess with his mind.
But if you vent to him, you will be making life easier for the pillock.

-x

Okay I understand. :-x

cyn , cuddly, puddles, judy, freddie bless your little orange panties.

I'm back, a little bit more balanced because of your wise advice. I'm in tears but tears of gratitude and appreciation that I am so blessed to be so supported.

[cat_mioux]

puddles yes time to start the countdown :-x :^O

I can do this.

[puddleback]

And I tell you what Cat......Houston better not have any problemsX-( or we'll be over to send him into orbit!!]:)

[cat_mioux]

🙂

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He's very subdued at the moment. I think when I shredded the object that represented our relationship and threw it in the bin, it really let him know it was over for me.

[cynthecowgirl]

Bingo! and just like that you're back in power. Don't let him take it back form you again. Go girl. You can do this.