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[cat_mioux]

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[kyliecrv]

(((((hugs))))) Drat, how vile is that ex of yours, Im sso sorry that you're so shattered and that your children are also being hurt by his behaviour.

Hoping that you can wake up tomorrow and find something to make you smile and feel good about. ☼

[the_great_she_elephant]

pssst She Ele it's d r a t , not draft

Sorry Drat. Still, it could have been worse - I might have called you D a f t? :^O

[drat60]

haha Thats Ok been called worse than that 🙂

Vile isnt quiet the words Id use but pretty close:)

I have my kids with me and they are wonderful. 🙂

My daughter and I are very close love her so so muchXXX She got a tattoo of my initials with In your footsteps on her foot last week, as she is so proud of me and wants to be just like me when she gets older, now I want to cry, how proud am I 🙂

Makes me laugh cause her father said I dont like it my initials would be better and put As wise as !!!! And she said And why would I want to do that hahhaahha I dont think he was too happy, how much of a bigger kick in the guts than to say she wanted mine not hers. lOL

I went to ring him to have another goi at him !! i KNow I shouldnt but makes me feel better LOl and he has his flamin phone off cause he hates me texting him when I dont say nice things to him I mean He is hurting so being nasty isnt helping him sort himself out Poor didums GGGRRRR
Thanks for cyber hugs I really need them at the moment to get past this at the moment. My aunt who is only 9 years older than me and we are like sisters is taking me on a road trip for a few weeks in a couple of weeks to get me away XX

Everyone is so shocked cause this is a guy that a few years ago would be so against anyone doing the wrong thing with cheating etc. God our sons GF was cheating and he went off his nut , but now we know he has been doing it the whole time he was going off about her God I hate some men !!!!

[keeliaclare]

Well I'm back off to bed. 🙂

Here's a song for us. ♥ Us oldies hoped it would work on all levels.....it didn't 🙂 But it mostly worked on the feminine level, so that's something:-D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RkNsEH1GD7Q

Ok, now you are taking me on a journey Carol......I also loved watching her clip of the same song in 2009....then I went on the Blowing in the Wind......

And yes, to an extent it did work on the feminine level, lots of things are better, but I sometimes wonder if we really are better off.....so many women now do it all, work,study, raise kids, tend the house etc.etc....but that's another topic entirely:)

Night♥

[bella_again]

Definitely some amazing women on this thread. Sending all my love to those who are hurting right now. You know I keep thinking of the bible verse that says 'those in sow in tears will reap with joy'

Your day of joy is coming and you know I think you'll find that from here on for many of you will walk into a new future that filled with laughter, hope and peace.

Have a great night:-x

[keeliaclare]

drat60....so hard for you. Lying, betrayal is the hardest to cope with.....

and I couldn't possibly post here what I think of someone like that.......


And your poor kids.:(

And I don't have words of wisdom either, your pain in palpable,

One day, one day, this will all be behind you.....hang onto that thought.....


((((hugs)))) all round

[keeliaclare]

Don't forget everyone that Feb 14th is the inagural Ok Day.

aka orange knickers day (see post 214)

So any slackers who been putting off buying orange undies or washing their old one, HURRY UP! There's only 2 days to go and you don't want to miss out on feeling the love.:-x

Oi do you mind? I bought another 3 pair today....just in case I didn't get the washing done:^O

[Anonymous]

oh carol ..i have tear's here reading your story
so so sorry you had to go thru that ..:-x:-x

drat ..i love your daughter already ..so glad you have her ..

been a mongrel of a day for some here ..

big cuddles ...
tomorrow is a new day
hope its a better one !

[not.happy.jan]

Creepy that made all the hairs on my arms stand up. Such a powerful song. I too am sorry you had to deal with all that. I remember the poor soldiers coming home to boos and stuff but had no idea the wives had to deal with it too. Big squishy to you o wise one, and you are you know. xoxoxo

Drat, I know it doesn't help you but mine did a similar thing. And if anyone had told me then what I know now I probably wouldn't have listened either. But...... my eldest is 29 and he said to me not so long ago that he will never forgive his father for what he did to us as a family. He sees him a couple of times a year, as does my other son who only lives 15 minutes away, but they have no respect for their father or the skank. As my son said, any woman who could happily come between a father and his children is not a woman to spend any energy on.

Time will tell for your kids and though they love their dad and caught between the love they have for you and him, there will be no respect for him. Love is one thing, but when your children respect you it is a glorious thing.

I understand your pain and can feel your anger, it's as angry as I was. It will dull in time and you will be able to let go. You are on a new life journey and it can only get better from here because you've been to hell so the only way is up.

Sending you big squishies too. x0oxoxo

Catty, you are such a special woman to share yourself with us. As for the bird episode, it just makes you humaner (?). :^O And completely understandable under the circumstances. I wouldn't have been so discrete. I blush now when I think of the things I called my ex's skank. Only because I found words I didn't know I knew. And she learn't new ones. :^O

I messed up my avi trying to put orange knickers on it but they're there in support of you. Big squishies and soft furry head butts to you.

Cyn, my twinny. You too are amazing, your support and strength shine through.

I'm so happy to be part of this 'sister's thread'. Sometimes I get teary and other times I PMSL. It's like a girls night out every night only without the booze.

Stay strong all you wonderful women and swing those knickers high in air for your sisters. Weeeeeeehaaaaaaa. :-x

[thebraff]

For thoseof you stilltrying to get knickers. The ones in the bullseye store were not the right kind or sizing for me but I found some in the Initial Mart store. In fact, because of how they were made and the fabric used, I bought a size smaller than normal and they are quite comfortable.

It is OK day on the 19th too, so we must remember that.

Drat, there is nothing I can say to help you with this low life bestid X-( We are here though, so instead of sending him nasty texts, come here instead and write things like ^%&&*%^^#%Y&U]:)

Not long now Cat.