on โ24-01-2011 10:15 PM
on โ12-02-2011 02:51 PM
Should add that I think it is absolutely ridiculous that you broke up at Christmas and he is still there. That's why I'm a bit worried about him moving out next week. He just doesn't seem to have it in him.
on โ12-02-2011 02:53 PM
on โ12-02-2011 02:58 PM
It doesn't even have to be a real roommate. Just get one of your friends to drop in a whole lot of their stuff into the spare bedroom and make it "look" used.
on โ12-02-2011 03:08 PM
on โ12-02-2011 03:29 PM
on โ12-02-2011 03:35 PM
on โ12-02-2011 03:42 PM
You are right b3llag. I'm aware that he may try the pity line, then the reasoning then the bullying. This is why I'm chanting for protection from those that wish me harm.
I will be strong. I'll ring the Tenancy Union Mon day and see what my rights are if he refuses to leave. He's name will no longer be on the lease anyway. I would call the police if I had to.
on โ12-02-2011 04:02 PM
on โ12-02-2011 06:55 PM
on โ12-02-2011 07:10 PM
Dear Ms. Cat,
I wanted to give you a warning yesterday. Had a funny feeling about Nonads days off work.
Unfortunately I had to go out and came home late and tired.
First of all, he can hire a trailer from some Petrol Station. BP have trailers of all sizes for hire. Accomodation he can find in a Caravan Park. They have on-site Caravans or Cabins for permanent residents. Cheaper than renting a house. And if he has no job, he better apply for the dole. Then he can enjoy all the perks that go with it and the free time to spend with his black-soul mate.
Please, please be strong and don't fall for any tears and false apologies, nor for any threats that he is going to end his life. Don't feel sorry for him, or guilty when he starts behaving like a helpless baby.
And don't let him bully you into agreeing to anything that is not acceptable to you. Tell him that if he does not pack up and go, the Police is only a phone call away.
He has long overstayed his welcome, now he is nothing but an intruder. He wanted out. He should have arranged his affairs before he told you, packed his stuff and left that day.
He is the one that has been unreasonable. Tell him you've had enough of his BS and that you don't care if he parks his sofa under a bridge and sleeps there, as long as he is out of your life.
Selfish baskets like him make so angry. X-(
Please be strong and take care.
((((((((HUGS)))))))) Erica