Hugs Cyn ๐
I havnt had a good few days either , found out that OH's affair probably started 2 years ago ๐ Its tearing my heart out , but even when I confronted him last week of letting her stay at his house while our sons best mate and his girlfriend were staying with him he still denied that she had ever stayed there before and she just stayed he didnt know she was going too ๐
I mean this was as they arrived saying they would take them for brekky in the morning at the cafe up the road where her daughter works and then take them fishing !! but he didnt know , she just stayed !!
Now I find out today form his best mate who said he hasnt been able to face me since he found out on NYE that he had her at all, BUT she dosnt live there only spends alot of time there ๐ But is so possessive and he is backed into a corner I think . I asked him to come home on Friday to talk about and sort out our lives re: house payments , to sell or not , we are half way through building another house as an investment with a friend , I told him it has to be sorted out he cant pretend everything is normal, so he screamed at me Ok I'll be home Friday Arvo, well his phone has been off since then and he refuses to speak to me and then he text our son and told him he went to Coffs to sort his head out and get away from everyone !!! 2 hours drive the opposite way to us, I told him via texts as he wont answer the phone to not include me in his plans as we are through, but still wont speak to me . So here we are 3 days later and no word at all from him ๐
I left a message tonight that he is to ring me pretty quick as I go see a solicitor Tuesday he is going to freak, I didnt want to do anything till we talked but he is giving me no options now ๐
I will not let that skanky ho get a cent of everything we have worked for and what belongs to me and our kids, not her ๐
I know I should cut all communication, but I want to hurt him, threatened to ask her to join my FB as a friend and so I could say Hey you do know I'm his wife dont you ???? But not ready to do that just yet. But I will ๐
He still told me on Friday that this skank is not the one he actually likes its a different one, !!! Nice hey so I said So your Sc@#wing this one but want someone else Real nice !! No I'm not sc#@wing her she is only a friend Oh that sleeps in your bed with you, sorry I dont have many opposite friends that i sleep with:(
Then to top matters off its the same one he introduced to my daughter while she was staying at his house 18mths ago, I also feel absolutely nothing for him, its all dead dead dead, except hurt and betrayal now, I even god forbid me, felt that I couldnt go on, so I would hurt him as much as he has hurt me, I could' nt do that to my kids and that is the only thing that stopped me. ๐
Poor didums is so confused, his work finishes up there in the next few months and I reckon she is now saying she'll come back here with him when he finishes and how is he going to get out of it with me here ๐ None of his mates or family knew at all except the people he has met where he is living , the whole double family scene ๐ But thinks that they will think he is a stud having the GF and the Wife they would think he was so cool :Enter spewing emoticon here: ๐
Sorry Cat hijacking again, god I hate how he makes me feel:(
