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[cat_mioux]

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[Anonymous]

G' Morning to all the OK'ers, I hope today is a better day for you Catty ♥

Flannie, my Brother is having some good some bad day's, I think he has one more chemo session to go, I guess until his chemo has finished the road will be up and down. Thanks for asking ♥

freddie ,hopefully he can build up his stength after the chemo,and start feeling a bit better :-x

thinking of you :-x

[soul_art]

hello ms mioux 😄

sounds like a rough few days for you (hugs)

It's great that you're taking time to think and it would be good to think of how this is affecting mr ex, too. (not that he deserves it...but I know you have a caring heart)

If you keep accepting his emails answering them etc., what message is it that you are sending him?

we can see the aftermath of his emails to you, but when you answer them, you are giving him hope.

Sorry if this sounds harsh...I don't mean it to.

I, and I'm sure everyone on here only want you to be happy, but by keeping that thin thread of hope alive, you are hurting yourself and mr ex.

I think you have done sooooo well and you should be proud of being strong when I'm sure you've felt like a puddle of jelly. I really think this breakup is about you learning to concentrate on fixing the things in your life that you have control over and that doesn't include other people.

An extremely hard lesson to learn but one that will make you a person who can be happy with themselves and if you do meet someone in the future, he will enhance your life not be a project for you to "fix".

I know you will always care for others and now it's time to care for you.

:-x

[keeliaclare2011]

hello ms mioux 😄

sounds like a rough few days for you (hugs)

It's great that you're taking time to think and it would be good to think of how this is affecting mr ex, too. (not that he deserves it...but I know you have a caring heart)

If you keep accepting his emails answering them etc., what message is it that you are sending him?

we can see the aftermath of his emails to you, but when you answer them, you are giving him hope.

Sorry if this sounds harsh...I don't mean it to.

I, and I'm sure everyone on here only want you to be happy, but by keeping that thin thread of hope alive, you are hurting yourself and mr ex.

I think you have done sooooo well and you should be proud of being strong when I'm sure you've felt like a puddle of jelly. I really think this breakup is about you learning to concentrate on fixing the things in your life that you have control over and that doesn't include other people.

An extremely hard lesson to learn but one that will make you a person who can be happy with themselves and if you do meet someone in the future, he will enhance your life not be a project for you to "fix".

I know you will always care for others and now it's time to care for you.

:-x

Lovely post soul. Hope you are going well?

[soul_art]

OOOH!

Hello keel :-x

just a quick pop in (OH is home). I'm great, thanks. Hope everythings well with you !

Sorry, gotta go, but will catch up soon :-x

[cat_mioux]

I sort of made it at work cept I made a huge mistake/s (plural aktshully). All I could do was confess to my boss. *sigh*

I told you I didn't have a working brain! :_|


He sent me a birthday email. *sigh*

I need time to think. Or chant. Tonight I'll chant for clarity.

It is a thread (binding me to him) that needs severing. It's scary. But my life needs to move forward.

This breaking up is hard to do.


PS Cyn - she is of no consequence whatsoever. Glad you didn't give her the satisfaction of yelling 'is there a ho in da house? Oh yes there is'. She then would have called you bat shirt crazy. X-(

((hugss)) :-x

[keeliaclare2011]

Take that thread Ms Mioux. Hold it in your hand, look at it, turn it over, examine it, if you will......

and then imagine taking it in your hands and gently breaking it.......see it float away.....curling and swirling away into wherever ....infinity......


This of all days, is a great day for new beginnings.

It is bound to be a day thinking of what might have been, but try to concentrate on just here, right now.

Just here right now, you have everything you need. You are OK. You are enough. Just you......

Sincerest birthday wishes to you♥

[rosymog]

oh cat carp l missed it earlier today

unhappybirthdayfor earlier

[rosymog]

Now l can say


Happy Purrday miss mioux


chant chant chant chant chantilly lace
orange face
happy birthday miss kitty

Cyn l doubt there is any need to shout it out that you are way ahead of the trash
sounds like most there have the gist of it anyways.


Onwards and Upwards

l hope you get cake miss mioux
and have paw prints in it from the kitties.
xxxhappy birthdayxxx

mogs and the moglets

[cat_mioux]

Take that thread Ms Mioux. Hold it in your hand, look at it, turn it over, examine it, if you will......

and then imagine taking it in your hands and gently breaking it.......see it float away.....curling and swirling away into wherever ....infinity......


This of all days, is a great day for new beginnings.

It is bound to be a day thinking of what might have been, but try to concentrate on just here, right now.

Just here right now, you have everything you need. You are OK. You are enough. Just you......

Sincerest birthday wishes to you♥

That is beautiful J :-x I will make it part of my visualisation. It feels gentle and I need gentle at the moment.

Mogs fanks! It's my birthday today! yay!

A year of true beginnings. I'm going to claim it as The Year Of The Cat 😄

[everything*that*i*ever*wanted]

Cat I was sitting here this evening (everyone has gone to bed) and I just started thinking of you. I hadn't been on here at the time, you just came into my mind. I (for some weird reason) burst into tears. I don't know if I am feeling your sadness but I just felt this overwhelming need to tell you how much you are loved and admired...even by those who don't "know" you.

Just wanted to let you know.