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[cat_mioux]

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[kyliecrv]

Thanks for the support on here, it is much appreciated. X

cat, I'm very sorry to hear you have been so ill, I agree that your friend would've been ok with supporting you, Im pretty sure that if it were reversed you would be happy to care for her. 

Jacks... Good on you, mr b deserves a foot up his...

freddie, thinking of you & your husband. X

[youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit]

morning all 🙂

thinking of (((freddie))) and (((freddies mr))) am sending you  calm healing thoughts, I hope you are both traveling OK, considering the circumstances. big love.

kylie:-x you sound like you are making all the difficult decisions really well. Thats not easy, and I admire you for that. Please give that little cutie Samantha an extra cuddle!

ms Cat:-xeven though it was meant to be a fun and relaxing break,was glad to read you had a good friend to take care of you. I hope you feel better soon.

to all others who read and visit-higs and hugs-

where is braff??:|maybe shes on another spy job?;-) come back,we miss you

you can do it you can do it you can do it

[murphyszoo]

Kylie, I hadn't realised that there was an alcohol/substance problem, certainly changes things. (I should learn to read properly instead of skimming)

I think kids are much happier living with a single happy parent than two miserable, fighting parents. 

Freddie, sending healing thoughts to your partner.

[kyliecrv]

Kylie, I hadn't realised that there was an alcohol/substance problem, certainly changes things. (I should learn to read properly instead of skimming)

I think kids are much happier living with a single happy parent than two miserable, fighting parents. 

Koko... He doesnt see the drining as an issue, and promised to not drink anymore to 'prove' that it was nothing, of course he is sneaky drinking now, as  I have subtly marked his bourban bottles!

Although when the topic of 'drinking' came up the other night, instead of insisting he'd quit, he said "Ive cut right back"... and yes he has cut back.

Yes, he is improving, and of course I think that I should give him another chance, but this is a cycle, where he works his butt off to make it up, then once Im back onside and things get back to norm, he starts back to his old ways.

In the end Im back to where Im unhappy and not being treated well, and nothing gets done around the house etc....

The ONLY time I can get things done, get help or be treated well, is when Im tantruming or threatening him with divorce!!

It's not the kind of person Im happy to be!

[cat_mioux]

Hugs to Mrs and Mr Freddie. Today is another important day :-x I hope you both are doing ok.

Kylie it must be some comfort to know he most probably will be a good father to Samantha so you can trust him having access.  Does all your family know your plans to separate? I was going to ask if they are supportive but I already know the answer would be yes. :-x

Jacks  surely mr B isn't greedy enough to take you to court. If he is then good grief! Remember he'd have to pay all legal costs and it can drag out in court for years.

Thanks YCDI - when I thought if the situation was reversed with my friend I wouldn't mind at all caring for her. I just feel so disappointed in myself. I rarely have holidays. Maybe that's the problem ... I'm so tired and stressed my body "crashes" when it knows I don't have to go to work.

Back to chanting .. I'm sounding like a big bag of misery. :^O  Being covered in hives doesn't help. *sigh*

[my2cuddlycats_not]

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[thebraff]

Did someone mention my name ?  ?:|

Sending special higs and hugs to Freddie and MrFreddie.  I'll be wearing my Orange Knickers tomorrow for you in support of the treatment.

Also to MsJacks, know in your own heart you are doing the right thing.  Stick to your guns and don't let MrB intimidate you. Higs and hugs for you.

MsKylie, I'm so glad that you are able to vent in here.  MrKylie certainly did the wrong thing regarding your anniversary after being told several times what your feelings were.

Did he remove the gifts from the house before your guests arrived?  Higs and hugs for you and your lovely supportive children.

MsCat, I hope you are now feeling a lot better and I agree with the others that your friend would have not given a second (or even a first) thought that your being unwell was spoiling the weekend.  Higs and hugs to you.

Cuddly, :-x :-x :-x :-x

YCDI Thank you for missing me.  No spy action happening B-)but I have been in Hobart, home a couple of days and then stayed overnight in ol' Sydney town on Saturday night after attending Damien's best show ever at the State Theatre.

a sample is here:  

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBw649hKRxk

She Ele I hope everything is going well in Elephant town.

To all others who lurk or post, higs and hugs  :-x

[youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit]

braff!!!:-xso nice to see you! Im glad that Damien still has you as his #1 fan..lucky man

(((freddie))) and (((freddies mr))) thinking of you both, sending warm thoughts of strength and calm..I hope mr is resting after the tests..hang in there freddie

higs and hugs to all you wise ones...I am off to my 2nd job, bossman is visiting today from Sydneytown..I will be doing my best to stay focused and get the job done..he often misses the flight and arrives stressed and breathless-but,hey!thats nothing to do with me,is it;-)

have a great day,one and all

you can do it you can do it you can do it

[jack*in*a*box]

Go get em youcan with the bossman

Hiya Braff...you lucky duck, you sure do get around

Hugs to Freddie and Mr. Freddie...I hope the tests are finished with and the news is very positive. :-x

Hope you feel better soon Cat. Have you been managing to eat some meat?

((Kylie))

My father phoned yesterday to inform me that my aunty lost her husband yesterday. I was not close to her husband but I think very highly of my aunt and will be thinking of her today.

Have a great day OK people. Hi to my2 as well. :-x

[kyliecrv]

 

MsKylie, I'm so glad that you are able to vent in here.  MrKylie certainly did the wrong thing regarding your anniversary after being told several times what your feelings were.

Did he remove the gifts from the house before your guests arrived?  Higs and hugs for you and your lovely supportive children.

Of course he DIDNT remove! He wants me to see them as a reminder of his love blah blah... (ie: emotional manipulation), also he would think that my friend would go on about how wonderful the flowers weree and how lucky I must be to get them etc... it's how he thinks!!

He did take the jewellery bag & bodyshop bag with him, prob scared that I just might go thru with my threat to bin them!

Well..... I DID bin them! I felt absolutely disgusting, and it was a scorcher so they died quickly!

Later I wished that I had've dropped them off to the local hospital or nursing home, the guilt has been gnawing at me 😞

He told me son he was VERY angry with me about it, but never brought it up to me at all.

Yesterday he sent me an email with a photo of the earrings and a message saying "Are you sure you want me to take these back?" He is SO determined that I MUST see them- as if it would change everything! I didnt respond, he knows my feelings!

Last night all the emotional manipulating texts came thru... "you're ripping my heart out"..... "its not fair you get the baby & kids & house & I have to suck it up and walk away"...."thanks for making me cry".... "Im sleeping in the car"..... "Im driving to work (at 1am) and will sleep there in car til work starts"

Grrrrrrrrrr.....I didnt respond to any, but of course Im feeling dreadful today at work and a huge headache!