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[cat_mioux]

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[prettylittlethingsau]

Hello everyone,

Long time lurker who has only ever posted 2 or 3 times.

I wanted to just send Kylie the hugest of hugs, the text/email manipulation was what my ex was best at & it nearly drove me insane 😞  The worst thing was if I tried to ignore it he would write something like "So I'm moving back in wether you like it or not & if you dont reply I will assume you agree" just so I would then feel I had to respond.

It is just so hard when you have tried & tried & get nowhere or as you have said Kylie its gets better but then they get comfortable & go back to their old ways .

Kylie you sound like an amazing strong woman and as I said I am sending huge hugs to you & anyone else who wants/needs one 🐵

[cat_mioux]

Thanks for your support prettylittlethings 🙂

Our Kylie know's what she's doing and she's doing it well. :-x

Lots of hugs to Mrs Freddie, Cuddly, Mrs Braff, YCDI and hi to Fiesta's! Good to see you :-x

Jacks I'm all excited to hear you have had 3 dates and it's all good! I hope he's a good cuddler 😉

[thebraff]

Sending higs and hugs and  :-x :-x :-x:-x  to all

[the_great_she_elephant]

Hi everyone.

it's too late at night and I'm too sleepy to comment on everything that's been said here over the last couple of days, but Kylie and Fiesta you have restored my faith in human nature and I wish posters on some other threads could take a leaf out of your books. What a  refreshing change it makes to see two posters having a serious difference of opinion over something really important, yet respecting each other, listening to each other and making an effort to understand each other's point of view. It's what makes this thread so special :-x

[kyliecrv]

Hello everyone,

Long time lurker who has only ever posted 2 or 3 times.

I wanted to just send Kylie the hugest of hugs, the text/email manipulation was what my ex was best at & it nearly drove me insane 😞  The worst thing was if I tried to ignore it he would write something like "So I'm moving back in wether you like it or not & if you dont reply I will assume you agree" just so I would then feel I had to respond.

It is just so hard when you have tried & tried & get nowhere or as you have said Kylie its gets better but then they get comfortable & go back to their old ways .

Kylie you sound like an amazing strong woman and as I said I am sending huge hugs to you & anyone else who wants/needs one 🐵

thank you hunni for your kind words.

what I'm finding hard is being nice/polite, which I need to do as we need to find a way to raise our baby together..... But he takes this the wrong way and thinks everything is fine between us!

im in no way leading him on or giving false hope but he just won't see or hear me.

[youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit]

morning all you wise ones:-)

hang in there kylie:-x the realisation will come for him, its a matter of time..I feel for you and the family with this stress, how comfortable is that lounge?;\ its good you have another place to feel supported and can vent, away from your family.

hello prettylittlethings,welcome! hug right back for you too:-)

Im with you she-ele:-x sometimes coming in here is like visiting a haven..we are fortunate to have havens in our lives.

(some posters elsewhere sure do have a lot of time on their hands..)

to all who visit higs and hugs and to that one still mia in the west,we miss you and hope things are going well-wont you come back??

off to retailworld, gotta work out what to buy from the new collection-fun spending someones elses $$$

you can do it you can do it you can do it

[freddie*rooster]

G'morning lovelies, I have the snotty nose :_|  in and out of air con rooms at the Hospital, plus a coughing lady in the train on the way to Sydney has finally got me.

Thankyou once again to everyone for your well wishes for my OH. We ring the Doctor in Sydney tomorrow.

Kylie, stay strong, I admire you for having the gutz to put your children first, so many women in unhappy relationships put up with being unhappy for the sake of having a man in their life. As the old saying is, "no-one knows what goes on behind closed doors" . You deserve better Kylie ♥

[freddie*rooster]

Oh and jacks, woohoo I hope things continue to go well for you. You deserve some joy in your life ♥

[cat_mioux]

Good afternoon fabulous ones :-x

A big hug to the snotty nosed one. Please rest and take care, lots of honey lemon hot drinks and aloe vera tissues :-x I hope the doctor has some good news.

Hugs to She-ele, YCDI, Cuddlybunny, Kylie, Jacks, Mrs Braff and all whom lurk.

This thread is a safe haven and have you noticed all whom post here are protected?

[kyliecrv]

Kylie, stay strong, I admire you for having the gutz to put your children first, so many women in unhappy relationships put up with being unhappy for the sake of having a man in their life. As the old saying is, "no-one knows what goes on behind closed doors" . You deserve better Kylie ♥

Thanks hunni, I just know this is the "right" thing, I dont need a man, and my kids are my NUMBER 1 priority and always will be.

I feel like 'partners' should compliment each other and be content and happy in their relationship... we seem to bring out the worst in each other. Solo- 2 okay people, but together not healthy, I do wish Id woken up sooner, but then I wouldnt have my little angel who I adore and healed my heart.

I feel like a blinder has been removed and Im just this new person ready to enter the next phase of life, I guess turning 40 was more monumental than Id thought??

Thanks again for all the wishes and thoughts! X