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[cat_mioux]

:^O

[kyliecrv]

Hugs Kylie.  It wont be easy but once it is sorted out, you will have to communicate over visiting rights and things should settle down.  Let's hope he has another relationship fairly quick.

hmmmm could be quicker than even I thought...

Tonight I had a little look at his phone (he's been taking it everywhere these days) and he has messages to his boss that aren't overly personal but ending with an "x" .... Wtf? He's always bagged her to me, and last time when we broke up she was advising him not to reconcile!

Interesting!

[jack*in*a*box]

😮 Kylie.

Sorry for you that this is making you feel that way. You need to do what you feel is right for your family so hang in there.

((Freddie and Mr. Freddie)) thinking of you both.

Yes, where is Braff?

Hi to Cat, she-ele, youcan and my2. Hope everyone is doing well.

Mr. Potter is taking me away for a naughty weekend to a cottage by the waterfront, still having fun :-x

Waves to anyone else I have missed. Have a lovely weekend beautiful people

[cat_mioux]

Kylie feeling sad about the end of your marriage is to be expected. It's part of the normal feelings of grief. Just because you initiated the break up, it doesn't mean you won't feel sadness.

You might feel all kinds of emotions such as grief, anger, sadness, relief, worry ... it's all part of the process. It will be an emotional rollercoaster but as YCDI said, keep the focus on you and your children. He may very well be "flirting" with his boss, it doesn't surprise me. Some men are like that, they need a female to be giving them attention at all times and the way you have described your husband, it seems he may be one of those men. As you withdraw he'll be on the look out for a replacement. That's his weakness. It has nothing to do with who you are.

We OK'ers are here for you :-x

Big hugs to Mr & Mrs Freddie, I hope all goes well and on Christmas Day you'll both be sitting in the sun, sipping a cold Chardy and feeling hopeful and happy. :-x

Ms Jacks enjoy your romantic weekend! B-)

Waving me OK's to YCDI, Cuddly, Mrs Braff yooooooo hooooo! and all whom post.

[cat_mioux]

Here's an embarrasing story. :8}

Remember Mr Fabulous Looking with the peepee problem? He was chatting to me for quite some time and the boss noticed. The boss shouted out "Excuse me Mr Fabulous Looking stop corrupting our Ms Mioux!". Mr FL laughed and started walking away and I turned to Mr Boss and said, mouth engaged before brain, "I wish!".  

WT?!  😮

How embarassing. Now he'll think I like him. Well I like how he looks and how he speaks and his laugh.

BUT I DO NOT NEED ANOTHER MAN/CHILD IN MY LIFE.

X-( slaps self

[the_great_she_elephant]

Hi everyone.

Freddie, thank goodness you now have some firm dates and information and can look forward to the time when it is all behind you.:-x

Jack - I hope your weekend is fun,  fabulous and really relaxing.:-x

Kylie. I really can't add to what Cat said. The guilt and negative feelings are a inevitable part of the  grief you are experiencing. I don't think there is any way you can prevent them creeping up on you from time to time. Just make sure you understand where they are coming from and don't make the mistake of believing they are in any way connected to the reality of your situation.:-x

Hugs for everyone else.:-x

We just got our dining room chairs back from the uphosterers so our lounge/dining room makeover is now complete.:-D

(except that now I'm thinking I would like to get our two recliner chairs recovered in the same material.:O)

[cat_mioux]

Just a quick fly through .. work again. 😐

Mrs Ele - what colour fabric? Yes, I think you should splash out and get everything done 😄

Hugs to everyone, spesh our Mrs Freddie and Kylie :-x

Last night at work I walked up to a a guy to ask him something and he looked at me and said "you are a very beautiful woman".

😮

I don't know what prompted him to say that but it felt nice. I'm not a "beautiful" woman, I think he meant on the inside. I have no idea.

PS He's gay. Really gay. But that made it even nicer because he obviously didn't have an agenda.

[the_great_she_elephant]

It's a burgundy velour, Cat, and sort of textured. I'll try to get some photos. We have cream walls, a slatey/blue carpet and blue and cream regency stripe curtains. I couldn't do the chairs in cream as the cats sleep on them and they would get dirty too quickly and blue would have been too much.Our sofa is Sanderson linen - cream with a big floral design of blue and pink/burgundy roses and the recliner chairs have bugundy coloured slip covers (though a bit faded now) and scatter cushions in a matching linen to the sofa.

i am really pleased with the chairs but when number one son popped in to say hello yesterday he said the colour looked as if it belonged in a brothel. (he did concede a very high class brothel though):O:^O

[kyliecrv]

Haha she-el.... Your son is funny!

Ive always wanted a bright red leather lounge, a male friend told me that they belong in a brothel! 

We I don't spend any time in those places so I really don't know!!

But I distill want one!

[the_great_she_elephant]

You can do guided tours of Langtrees in Kalgoorlie. A writer friend and I did one a few years ago while we were in the Goldfields doing school workshops. It was actually very interesting, they told us something about the early history and how some of the 'girls' were conned into coming there from France and Italy in the belief they were going to be shop assistants or ladies' maids. Once they found out the truth they were stuck because they had nop money and were so isolated. It was stuff I was able to use in the book I've just finished.

I don't remember any red velour lounges, but there was a 'Japanese room, a Roman Orgy' room, one with a bed done up like a boxing ring and one with a bed like a big 1950s American car, that was very sound sensitive and set of an alarm if unsuspecrting customers enjoyed themselves too loudly:^O

They also had a very nice barbecue area out the back that you could hire for stag nights.

[thebraff]

*creeps in*      B-)

Hello folks   *waves*

Higs and hugs to all and sundry.

I am just back from Wagga Wagga.  ♫ ♫ ♫ ♫ ♫  ♥♥♥♥♥

I have not had a weekend at home for yonks.

She Ele I love the sound of the colours you have mentioned.  I was wondering how your son knew what a brothel looked like but I will assume he has also been to Langtrees for a guided tour  😉

Oh lookey, you can now see more than the last post.  Sorry for me being slow to discover that if it has been like it for a while.

Freddie, great news that MrFreddie  has his date now.  I hope it all goes well for him and he recovers quickly.  *fingers crossed*

MsJacks, how was your weekend with Mr Potter?  It sounds like you are very happy.  :-x

MsCat,  oooh how sweet that Mr Gayworkfriend gave you such a nice compliment.  It is obviously true.

Haha about your comments regarding MrPeepee.  :^O

Hi YCDI.  I hope everything is going well with you  *hig and hug*

MsKylie, it can't be at all easy for you, trying to do the best thing for yourself and family but stay strong and get through each day.

Don't go through Mr SoontobeX's phone.  So what if there is an x at the end of his message to the Boss. 

That will help him move on quicker and out of your hair.

Was the wedding this weekend just gone or next weekend?  Either way, I hope you are able to put your own situation out of your mind for the moment and just have a really enjoyable time at this very special event for your sister.