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[cat_mioux]

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[dtrh3]

Dear Ms Cat,
Sending you strong thoughts of clarity and calm.Hope you can continue to focus on yourself and that you have a great day :^O
you can do it you can do it you can do it

[dtrh3]

Good post dtrh, and I completely agree. Forgiveness give us our freedom.


I do think the other stages have to be worked through first, anger, hurt, grief, the are all completely natural and necessary to a complete recovery.

Then when one has worked through all of that forgiveness comes quite easily.

Evening Ms Mioux ♥

Just reading the posts,and thinking about healing...and I agree keeliaclare that its all part of a process-one that for some follows a progression,for others it seems to loop back on itself..its good to be open to the idea of forgiveness though,and it seemed to me that Ms Cat could be open to it.

Ultimately I think that forgiveness is a release,its not condoning or accepting the others behaviour,but rather releasing yourself from reacting to it.If you dont react,then this other person doesnt have power over you and you dont waste energy or time thinking about them or plotting revenge.You spend energy and time thinking and healing yourself.
I think that there are opportunities to heal and learn about yourself through others experience and these posts from all these generous,vulnerable and courageous people can be solace and perhaps lessons to others..:-x

[thebraff]

Sending calm vibes your way Ms Cat :-x


My OK are in the washing machine now as I am typing this. Getting them ready for 'OK Celebrating M Day' on the 19th.

[Anonymous]

Hi beautiful Cat and the OK crew♥

You need to get a card for Nonads to wish him 'All the best'.
Hide it in the glove box of his car. This will guarantee the skank will find it first. mwhahaha

Just put a big lipstick kiss on the envelope and word the card something like this;

Thanks for now making my life complete,
You out of my life is giving me peace.

The last ten years have been a blast,
But now I’m glad it’s in my past.

I truly want to wish you well
And hope your new life is really swell.

You’ve got so much you need to give;
And I know many others will experience this.

Just remember one thing to help you through;
The stuff you do in life will come back at you.

Stay well, be happy and tell them all the truth…
It’s the least you can do. xo

[Anonymous]

morning miss cat and ok ladies ..

love it dixo!

3 more sleeps cat ..

are you gonna have a party here sat night ??

i'll bring the cake !

[Anonymous]

he he ..my friend that went thru this last year ..

had a huge divorce party ..cake ,male strippers the lot ..

her ex was spending 4 hrs a day at the gym..

it wasn't working ..couldn't see one muscle ..just a big gut

when she found out she nicked named her gymima:^O

[tende60]

I love all the pictures, poems, songs, the countdown calander and all the wonderful words.

I hope you all have a good day.

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[cat_mioux]

Good morning :-x

Great poem dixo! Love it!

I have to work Saturday but maybe that's a good thing. I won't have time to feel sorry for myself because the deadline for him being out of the house is 2pm and I have to be at work at 2:30pm 😐 But I know my work colleagues will be there for me and there is always the work toilets for my usual 5 min sob session if I need it :^O

I rang all the utilities this morning to have his name taken off the bills. One of them wanted to speak to him. His voice sounds shakey. His plans to move better not have fallen through. X-( I wouldn't know because we are barely speaking.

I'm off to work today thank goodness.

PS He's packed the fugly saxophone statue. Yay! I told him before we met I had the following tools: hammer, Phillips screwdriver, spanner and pliers. I've also counted the house keys on his key ring. 6 of them. I've even written down their descriptions i.e 3 brass keys, 1 blue, 1 orange. Will be taking those off his key ring as soon as I get up Sat morning.

I better blow up my air mattress/sofa too 😄

He has set up the internet through his computer. I've asked him to plug everything in to mine Friday so I can phone our IP just in case it doesn't work. Not holding my breath. So if I'm not online Sat/Sun/Mon you'll know why.

I can do this I can do this I can do this

[Anonymous]

you sure can cat ...you are strong enough and don't forget it !

[Anonymous]

gotta love maxine :^O