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[cat_mioux]

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[dtrh3]

My BFF was diagnosed with breast cancer late last year. She was 33 at the time, 34 now. She has a 3yo and a 4yo. It's the 3rd time she's had cancer in her life. She started on chemo straight away, then radiation. They did a scan on her week before last as she was nearing the end of the prescribed radiation treatments to check how it was all going. Last Monday they told her she's terminal, 2 years max. It has spread to her lungs, spine and brain. They settle on their new house next friday.

I'm just lost.

Dear bpuppy,
Life can be sh..i.te cant it?
I am shocked and so sad for you.:-x
I will send you all my positive thoughts and please,take it easy on yourself-you will need strength.My heart goes out to you...
(((((((((hugs)))))))))

[cynthecowgirl]

Oh Bpuppy, I nearly walked away without saying anything coz I didn't know what to say. But then I realised saying nothing is worse than saying something. So I just want you to know how sad I feel for you and your friends. If this thread can be of any help then I think we should offer it to you too. Hugs. That's the best I can do. Hope it helps in some way. X cyn

[my2cuddlycats_not]

(((((((((((((bpuppyandfriend)))))))))))))

[kokomobua]

Hi Cat 🙂


Right now, I'm looking at the waste of so many years and even though regret isn't the most productive thing in the world, it's what comes to mind, along with disappointment.

I wish everyone going through the same thing the best of luck. I'm sure it does get better. Well, it better get better.

Cristina,
so sorry to hear your sadness too.
But PLEASE don't view those years as wasted - for good or bad, they are what have helped shaped the person you are now.
And judging by your posts (you're one of my fav. posters), you're a pretty cool chick.

Promise you, it does pass and actually much quicker than you'd think, looking at it from the beginning.

[bpuppydog]

Thanks :-x

There really is nothing to say, it is the most sh_t thing ever. I just want them to be wrong so much. She's beaten it twice, what makes this time any different?

Thank you for your good thoughts, thinking good things is really all there is left. I don't want to hijack Miss Cat's thread with this, but I have felt like a terrible virtual friend this week (timing!!) and I guess I just needed you all to know why.

Anyway, I'm back obviously, so on we charge.

No more Happy Bunny, he went to live under Nonads new premises where he felt he could do the most harm :^O

[kokomobua]

Bpuppy,
what a terrible shock for you and I can imagine the grief and sadness you are going through.

Stay strong for your friend, she's going to need you.

(((hugs)))

[kokomobua]

Bpuppy, there is absolutely no reason that this time is any different. There are so many stories of people beating the odds ("miracle cures") and no reason your BFF couldn't be one of them.
I am a VERY strong believer in mind over matter. The brain is a curious beast and I think for sure it has the ability to cure the body.

[my2cuddlycats_not]

Hi Cat 🙂

I've recently gone through the same thing (2 weeks ago) after 9 years (my entire adult life, basically). Seems like 'tis the season not to be jolly. I didn't imagine heartbreak could be so physical and all consuming, but it is. That said, it's the best diet I've ever come across.

Right now, I'm looking at the waste of so many years and even though regret isn't the most productive thing in the world, it's what comes to mind, along with disappointment.

I wish everyone going through the same thing the best of luck. I'm sure it does get better. Well, it better get better.

I am so sorry, I missed this.

(((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

[small_creeps_friend]

Love where you and he are at Mioux :-x

[small_creeps_friend]

Oh Puppy I am soooo sorrry 😞 I just posted my pic whithout reading back :_|

Lubs ya lots Sweet Lady...Hang in there :-x