Cat_mioux's new home

[cat_mioux]

:^O

[cynthecowgirl]

PS: when I showered this morning I thought to myself....."today is going to be an Ok day"and I whipped out the orange knickers. Just coz I could. It made me smile.

[jack*in*a*box]

I want a pair of Ok's and I want to send Miss Cat. all my love and happy vibes. ♥

[thebraff]

Calling in for this evening to say hello to MsCat and all the other wonderful OK posters here.

Sending good vibes to all. bzzzz bzzzz bzzz:-x

[dtrh3]

Dear Ms Cat,

Sending you thoughts of kindness and care.Hope you are still focusing on you.:-x

you can do it you can do it you can do it

freddie,you and your family are in my thoughts:-x-
I hope today is a good day for your brother..keep up the positive prayers,healing can happen in extraordinary ways.sending you thoughts of positive energy and strength.

keep the faith

[dtrh3]

Ms Cat,
uhm:-x

I will be MIA for a few weeks,but my thoughts will be with all the people who post regularly here-please all stay well,think positive and be kind to one another :-x

you can do it you can do it you can do it
keep the faith :-):-x

[freddie*rooster]

Thanks dtrh, you are a sweet kind lady, I hope you're going to some fun place for a little R & R ♥

Morning Catty and the OK'ers ♥

Cyn, you really are an inspiration, on your crusty dry sponge day's just remember how many OK'ers admire you, that will bring a smile to your face.:-x

[tende60]

Cat, Freddie and OK ladies, I hope today is a good one for you.♥

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[b3llag1na]

This thread never fails to uplift me - just seeing the support that is being so freely given to others who are struggling....

Makes the world seem a little brighter 🙂

[freddie*rooster]

Morning Tende, I hope you have a good one ♥

[push_the_buttons]

lyn, I am happy for your friend that she has reached that stage. Some days I am there, and others I am nowhere near there.

I can only described it like me being a sponge that has been dipped in water.
Sometimes I'm the soggy bits around the edge where I can see how happy I am now and be truly glad that he left and know with all my heart, with 100% certainty, that I no longer am in love with him nor want him back.
Other days I'm the dry crusty hard bits and I'll see or hear something about 'them'' that gets me angry and hurts or really posses me off. But at least when I have those days I'm able to stop my negative thoughts by asking myself....."why are you unhappy when you truly know that he's not what you want or need anymore?'" Then I'm happy again.

One day I hope to be a complete soggy sponge and then maybe when that day happens I can truly wish him happiness. In the mean time I have a bit more to absorb or take in before I get there.

Cyn, like Cat, you ARE doing it...one foot in front of the other, one day at a time. The healing is in the living.