wow so much fantastic advice!
To the 'newbie' ID - yes we met as you said and I've told him his greatest talent in life is hooking up with women online with his amazing romantic emails. Too bad he can't sustain the facade in RL. ๐ :^O
Yesterday I messed with his mind. Told him the skanks husband has a right to know and that I'm thinking seriously about contacting him. He looked very worried then muttered "well if that's the kind of person you are". "Haven't decided yet" but I smiled at him ]:) I also warned him his skank better tell her husband before he finds out through me. He then spluttered "but we are not having an affair now. We hardly talk anymore". yeah right. What a WALLY! :^O
Thanks for the Living Together site. Very informative. Of course he is paying his half of the bills and rent until the day he moves out. I have not co-signed on anything thank goodness. As for going for his Super? Takes legal fee's and having to be 'tied' to him re: court. And with defacto - it's never clear cut. NOT worth it. Once he walks out that door that is it. I told him NO CONTACT IN ANY WAY EVER. He's upset about that. Poor baby. Now he doesn't have Plan B i.e get back with me if his life turns to carp.
He can take the lounge suite and coffee table. They have bad memories. That's where he conducted most of his affair on his laptop! Anyway - the kitties have shredded the shirt out of the sofa's. Like the idea of sawing an inch off the coffee table leg so it rocks annoyingly in his new house. :^O
Yes, I'm in the angry stage of grief. Can you tell? ๐
Rosy, I love how your furiousness with him comes through! Makes me feel good! But there is no point fighting with him. Makes it very uncomfortable. AS you have probably noticed - he's not the most reasonable person to communicate with. Better he takes the lounge furniture etc than having us ending up having a fist fight - cos I swear I want to punch that's man's lights out.
