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Right. I've blocked his email address. Finally! X-(

I just got the most disgusting email from him. The first paragraph said "You can't make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them until they panic and give in". The rest was utter rubbish. It was sent as a 'group' email.

I think him and his SIL were doing something they shouldn't have been that night. I think he'd been cheating on me at different times throughout our relationship. There was also the time I caught him on a dating site and he said he had to become a member to advise his friend on the women his friend was choosing to contact. What a load of! X-(

Oh I'm so angry. And now I'm back to 0F because I opened his email. X-(

Oh well, at least I finally blocked him.


okay I feel a bit better now. Thanks for listening :8}

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I think you had to read that email to be able to finally block him.

0Fโ™ฅ<<<<< but don't feel bad, I feel it is really another step forward. :-x
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Right. I've blocked his email address. Finally! X-(

I just got the most disgusting email from him. The first paragraph said "You can't make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them until they panic and give in". The rest was utter rubbish. It was sent as a 'group' email.

I think him and his SIL were doing something they shouldn't have been that night. I think he'd been cheating on me at different times throughout our relationship. There was also the time I caught him on a dating site and he said he had to become a member to advise his friend on the women his friend was choosing to contact. What a load of! X-(

Oh I'm so angry. And now I'm back to 0F because I opened his email. X-(

Oh well, at least I finally blocked him.


okay I feel a bit better now. Thanks for listening :8}

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Cat - that was the email you were meant to read - the one that broke "the camel's back". Don't worry about being 0F again - you're starting a new chapter.

My DD was in total denial with her EX, even when he didn't want to live with her any more!!! I believe he had been cheating since the early days of their marriage - what sort of male aged 38-40 goes to discos by themselves when married? - DUH!!! Anyway she finally had to face the truth when one of his relatives told her he was cheating. There's lots more but that's the basics and shows how easy it is to be in denial, as many women and men are for years.

Hope everybody else is going OK, especially Freddie - such a hard time for you. It's always worse for the ones who aren't ill when the end is near.
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cat yay ..you've had a light bulb moment and your angry

the final stage of grief !!

we need champers in here ..to tired to find a pic ha ha !

dunno if any one else but i did think to myself wonder if he has done this before !!!

you knew back then ,but didn't want to face it
you are now and good on you ..

use that anger to get over this ,he's had you for to long ..with or with out him iykwim .

mind to busy exactly ..hope your dd is going ok now !

freddie ..hope you are getting some rest and looking after yourself:-x
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cuddly:-x
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cuddly, mindtoobusy, flannie :-x :-x :-x


I think you are right! His stupid email came just at the right time - for me to feel enough anger to finally block him. He creeps me out now. Gone is the hope, gone is the longing, and now my eyes are open to the reality that he probably was cheating on me to different degree's throughout our relationship.

I understand the temptation of denial mindtoobusy. You just don't want to 'go there' for various reasons.

This is good stage of grief if it gets me to let go. I think the stages of grief come and go, fluctuate. I feel like I've been here before but this is a stronger anger.

Does it take a year? I wonder where I'll be by Feb 19th 2012?

One thing I do know. I never would have survived as well as I have without the OK'ers :-x
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Onward and upward Miss Mioux, that's where you are heading.
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