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[cat_mioux]

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[witches*wol]

(((CJ))) So sorry to learn of your mum's passing.  I hope your daughter comes home soon too, you just don't need this kind of stress right now.

Waves a big hello to everyone else on this thread.

I was passing by, saw the light on and thought I'd drop in and say a quick hello to you all.

Wishing you all a weekend filled with Light and Love.

[mindtoobusy]

CJ - Have been thinking of you a lot.  It's hard when birthdays are close to the dat eof death.  My darling Dad died the day after his 85th Brithday - his birthday was 6th Sept, so always near Fathers' also.  I'm sure you won't be able to get your Mum out of your mind for a while yet - but I think that is a good thing, as it helps with the grieving process - especially when we think of the nice things we remember about them.

My Mum died 12 years ago and I often have dreams with her in them, also Dad and my younger sister who died 43 years ago.  It seems to have happened more since I have got older - think it is because our children are all adults and married now so I have more time to think about the past.

I'm praying your daughter will come to her senses and at least get in contact with you.  What a worry, and you ceretainly don't need more on your plate.  Glad to hear your brother has softened - hope Mum's partner is not causing any more problems.

Hi to everybody else - must be off to bed, I'm falling asleep!!!

Big Hugs to everybody - keep well and warm!!!

[cynthecowgirl]

I got logged out again!!! I can't ever remember having to sign in every time. Am I doing something wrong. Normally I just open the page up from favorites and I'm in.

Anyhoo, whoever it was that asked me how I am doing I am just fine. Life is just dandy.:-D

[cat_mioux]

Hi everybody!

Yes Cynth we now have to log in twice to get in and if you walk away for a certain length of time you have to log back in. :^O

Happy to hear you are doing well!

Hi Mindtoobusy and everyone who posts, Mrs Braff, Cuddly, Kylie and much love and special hugs to Jacks. I hope your daughter is back safe and sound. :-x

[jack*in*a*box]

Thank you Cyn and everyone here :-x

Mum is around me all the time. I smelt her so strongly yesterday. I sense her around me.

Still having drama's trying to collect mum's belongings from her partners house. We are waiting until next week (as he requested) and then go from there. I wasn't going to even ask him to start the collecting of things only that he called me three days after mums service telling me to ring the solicitor first thing in the morning (Monday) and is it ok that he keeps mum's car?

Now he is saying he is too upset to think about sorting out her estate.

Remember the drama I had when mum had surgery and my car blew up? Not one offer from him to lend me one of his four cars or my mums? Now he wants it. He would then own 5 cars!!!! WT?

Anyway, Miss 15 has met with her nan and pop today. I'm waiting to hear how that is going.

Take care people and love the ones you love. :-x

[cat_mioux]

Jacks?

He has 4 cars and he never even offered you a loan of one during that time? 😮

Now I have steam coming from my ears. Jacks tell him "seeing as you're too upset to sort through my mum's estate, I'll do it for you" then take whatever you want to keep for yourself and your children.

I was feeling sorry for the man but hearing how he allowed you to go through all that worry and difficulty having to find finance and a car during that time when you least had the time when lending you one of his cars wouldn't have inconvenienced him at all ...

hmmmm X-(

[jack*in*a*box]

Yep. Mum left him very specific things in her will.

The rest is to go to my brother and I. I haven't even collected her jewellery yet.

[cat_mioux]

Your mum didn't specify leaving her partner her car?

If it's not in the will then you clearly don't have to give him the car.

PS I love that your mum is always with you and you can feel and smell her presence. ♥

[jack*in*a*box]

No mention of her car in her will.

She left him specific ornamental items. The rest is ours. Yet he won't let us collect them because he is too upset. *sigh*

Big man has even played the solicitor. She feels sorry for him. If only she knew/saw how he treated my mother when she was sick 😐 

[jack*in*a*box]

It makes my blood boil too knowing that I caught a 5 hour train ride home the day I found out my mother was going to die.

Only a few weeks later, his son came to borrow one of his cars. Boy was I angry.

Now he wants mum's car because it is more economical than his cars. Silly man, if he sold even just two of his cars, he could buy a very similar car to mums.

The car is a sore point.(understandaby)

i told him he could buy it from me/us  but he says he can't afford it. This car is 12-13 years old and my price was pittance