on 05-02-2014 12:08 PM
But now the vultures circle for this poor old lady's estate.
Inquest into forgotten Sydney woman to turn 'ugly'
on 05-02-2014 12:23 PM
It's pretty awful isn't it?
Without knowing the family history, I'm sure Mrs Wood would have wanted her estate to go to her relatives though.
on 05-02-2014 12:47 PM
She died alone, and that's really sad.
on 05-02-2014 12:54 PM
That's just too sad.
I'm not so sure she'd want her estate to go to rellies if the rellies showed no
caring or love like it seems. She may well have preferred it to go to a charity.
If she didn't leave a will though the vultures with fight it out no doubt.
on 05-02-2014 01:37 PM
on 05-02-2014 01:45 PM
I agree with bright.
What kind of a family is that, that never got in touch with the old lady? Eight years is an awful long time for relatives not to know how the lady was coping alone at her age. There should be a law that prohibits such vultures to inherit anything because of their neglect to keep in contact with her.
I hope they find a will and everything goes to charities.
If I was a whealthy widow and my family did not contact me for 12 month, they would be out of my will quick smart, and I would state why they did not deserve one cent of what was mine.
Erica
on 05-02-2014 02:02 PM
reply to crikey 'Dead for 8 years and no one knew'....
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We don't know the full story only what some reporter has chosen to report. You can be sure that the full facts of this matter would be much more....and more interesting too!
e.g.....Perhaps Mrs Woods only had one sibling and that this sibling passed away many years before she herself reached old age.....perhaps her surviving sister-in-law and she may have never seen eye to eye or perhaps had nothing in common and did not stay in touch. No scheming scenarios here!
There are many scenarios that could be presented and contemplated before assuming that she was an unloved elderly lady:)
Many people prefer to be on their own-especially in old age and are quite happy. I can understand this totally.
To be on your own does not necessarily mean that you are 'lonely'.
As for suggesting that living next of kin are 'vultures' for coming forward to make a claim.......quite ridiculous!! These next of kin would have been contacted by the authorities and advised the process of making a formal claim.
If the worst case supposed scenario makes your hair curl and angst button turn red then I suggest you go have a friendly cuppa with a lonely elderly person in your neighbourhood-rather than get suspicious of your healthy younger relatives!!
on 05-02-2014 02:04 PM
There may not be any relatives, or if there are, they may have been allianated from her...........some families dont have relationships with other family members.
What about her ultility accounts, didnt those people come around, also centrelink the bank, her neighbours?
Surely the garden, being neglected would have made neighbours or anyone passing that something was wrong?
Poor lady, so very sad.
on 05-02-2014 02:07 PM
to purple.....this is life i guess. Care factor of zero in most respects. Sad but true.
on 05-02-2014 02:13 PM
Sounds as if she had no children. Might have been reclusive after retirement. Maybe she didn't like extended-family members. There could have been a falling-out
Where she is, she won't be caring about material things, whereas those still encased in flesh suitcases care very much about money, just like the rest of us
Wonder if any of those seeking a chunk of her estate are able to prove they were at least in touch with her occasionally -- proof lying in any greetings/Christmas cards amongst her belongings
My elderly neighbour died when I was about 20 years old. It was a boarding house. She had the room next to mine. She collapsed from the heat. I called the doctor. He was reluctant to come and told me to bathe her in vinegar and water. Public telephone boxes in those days. I kept running down with change for the phone to beg the doctor to come. Finally he did. She died a few hours later
I'd never seen anyone visit her in the 18 months I'd lived there. Within a day or two, a gang of them descended -- middle aged, well dressed. Not much to say, certainly no thank yous. They were working their way through her few possessions. She used to pinch my food from the communal kitchen -- funny old dear. So there they were, fossicking through a few assorted tinned items (she'd been stashing them). They were working away like beavers, heads down. Well, she had nothing apart from a few photo albums and old clothes. They took most of it then swept out the way they had come -- nothing to say. Left what they didn't want for someone else to deal with
I'd listened to her for hours as she reminisced about her youth, her marriage, etc. She used to forget she'd told me and would tell the same story over and over again with me nodding as if I'd never heard it before. Sweet old thing. She was descended from a well-known Australian chocolate manufacturers, she said. Her surname fitted the story. Poor as a churchmouse. Quiet, timid, tiny.
Those old people from days gone by. When I first found her, she was lodged between the bed and an old fashioned wardrobe. She couldn't extricate herself. I managed to get her up and onto the bed. Said I'd run to phone the doctor. By the time I got back, she'd managed to change from her 'everyday' nightie into her 'good' one -- out of respect for the doctor who was too busy to come attend to her until she was on her last gasp. I'll always remember it -- her lying there on the bed in her 'good' nightie because she didn't want the doctor to see her in her usual one. Gotta look nice for the doctor. Pity no-one paid her the same respect