on 20-10-2020 11:11 PM
on 02-11-2020 07:08 PM
Nah.. not really kids stuff, they should be taught to tell the difference between fact from fiction.
Would give them a better start to cope with the real world.
on 03-11-2020 04:24 PM
Sigh,,, I don't see a vigorously nodding emoji, so you'll have to imagine it, but I am doing that, just so as you know, Joz!
on 03-11-2020 06:45 PM
03-11-2020 06:57 PM - edited 03-11-2020 06:57 PM
I wish I haden't been told about the boogeyman when I was a kid. I still become unnerved in the dark sometimes.
on 05-11-2020 02:06 PM
@twyngwyn wrote:
slightly off topic, but.....I never taught my children about Santa, Tooth Fairy, Easter Bunny etc.....all in the same basket.
Back in the day 'Stranger Danger' was de rigueur....so that is what they got. I have been accused (by friends) that I took the 'magic of childhood' away.
Pfft....I would rather them know the plain facts of life....
I hope they thank me
I know someone who has done the same with her kids. Right from the get go presents came from mum and dad, not some imaginary person who breaks into your house in the middle of the night. They know about Santa et al and also know they can't tell their friends that they don't really exist, so they play along with their friends. They felt they would be lying to their kids by allowing them to believe in the imaginary beings.
Interestingly, they are very devout Catholics! Not able to believe in one lot of imaginary beings, but OK to believe in another!
As kids, we had Santa, but none of the others. We also found out a lot earlier than most kids that he wasn't real. We didn't let on for a long time though, because we thought that would be the end of our Christmas stocking (which was a pillow case).
on 05-11-2020 02:11 PM
@ambercat16 wrote:
@*tippy*toes* wrote:I have asked Catholic priests and ministers that exact thing Dave. How did they breed when there were only 3 men and one woman? Incest? Further into the bible, one of the sons dies. The other goes to a far away land and "marrys". Where did all those people in the far away land come from? So far, no person of the cloth has been able to answer my questions.
You would think, after more than 2000 years, someone would have come up with a more plausible explanation than "all things are possible with the Lord" or "you just have to have faith" carp that I was fed whenever I asked the same question.😎
What I find amusing is, young kids often have an imaginary friend. I didn't because my brother and I are close in age, but my sister did. Hers was a pink camel that was able to fly, named Beesting. Kids are strongly encouraged to abandon their imaginary friends by a certain age, or they could land themselves in therapy.
Yet, it's OK for adults to believe in imaginary friends, and it's not seen as weird?