on 10-03-2015 10:06 AM
Catherine Weingarted and Endangered Bodies.
Petition · Facebook: Remove the "Feeling Fat" Emoticon #FatisNotaFeeling · Change.org
Scrolling through Facebook the other day, I saw a friend’s status set to “feeling fat,” accompanied by an emoji with chubby cheeks and a double chin. I think it was supposed to be funny, but seeing this status made me feel angry.
As someone who has struggled with and overcome disordered eating, I know what it’s like to “feel” fat.
I have spent years of my life consumed with negative thoughts about my body, and far too many days starving myself in an effort to lose weight. But even worse than the skipped meals and the hours spent obsessing in front of the mirror was the fear of what others thought about me and my body.
When Facebook users set their status to “feeling fat,” they are making fun of people who consider themselves to be overweight, which can include many people with eating disorders. That is not ok. Join me in asking Facebook to remove the “fat” emoji from their status options.
Fat is not a feeling. Fat is a natural part of our bodies, no matter their weight. And all bodies deserve to be respected and cared for.
Facebook is the most popular social networking site in the world right now. With 890 million users each day, it has the power to influence how we talk to each other about our bodies. I dream that one day the platform will actively encourage body positivity and self-esteem among its users, but for now, all I ask is that it stop endorsing self-destructive thoughts through seemingly harmless emojis.
Oh please, Catherine. Perhaps get off Facebook and get a real life you might not be so "consumed with negative thought's" about your body.
on 10-03-2015 01:24 PM
I think fat is a feeling.
You see some people that are quite overweight and they are very downbeat and weary looking. Then you see others that are the same weight and they are upbeat and confident and happy and you don't even notice their weight because they look great anyway.
on 10-03-2015 01:27 PM
Donna thanks-i have worked it out--im bloated -not fat.........................Richo.
on 10-03-2015 01:50 PM
Must have used that 'back button' for a welcome change Icy !
You know the one some always 'suggest' others use - a bit like the overused 'edit' feature
on 10-03-2015 02:22 PM
@serendipityricho wrote:Donna thanks-i have worked it out--im bloated -not fat.........................Richo.
I hope you apologised to the cat - they have very delicate psyches and develop self esteem issues which require expensive, time consuming intervention from trained persons.
Marina.
on 10-03-2015 02:39 PM
Marina---it was an imaginary cat-ate the last one-no wonder im bloated-burp..Richo.
on 10-03-2015 02:52 PM
@imastawka wrote:Surely the terminology is wrong.
Not fat, bloated maybe?
big-boned?
on 10-03-2015 03:06 PM
Icy-its all coming together ta.--im bloated and big boned..not fat..geez.. feel better already.
Just on tpoic--its and old one--but ..whats the difference between fat and cholesterol?
Blokes dont wake up in the morning -with half a cholesterol---------just saying....................Richo.
on 10-03-2015 04:09 PM
Icy you can post whatever you like whenever you like as far as many on here are concerned and nobody has the right to lecture you.
I only had to put on a kilo and I'd work like mad to get it off.
I starved myself for years and never knew that I probably had an eating disorder. I never ate a sweet or desert.
I still obsess about my weight and I'm forever on a diet, if I see myself reaching a level that I know is just going to take me that much longer to get off, on the diet again.
on 10-03-2015 04:12 PM
richo
on 10-03-2015 04:13 PM