Loneliness

[123-cavaliers]

Hi all. It took me ages to get the courage to write this. I recently moved to Victoria, know no one, and am extremely lonely. I am a STRAIGHT married woman, but am at the stage where it is a marriage in name only. I am a young at heart 62 year old, look after myself, love a laugh (and a cry if needed LOL). I just adore my 3 little dogs, who are my best friends and the loves of my life. I love shopping, trash and treasure markets, my computer (which I'd be lost without LOL), cooking, music, etc.etc. I'd love to meet other women to have a coffee and "yak" with, go shopping with etc. etc. I am very down to earth and non judgemental...I have had tough times in my life and judge no one. Soooo...if there's anyone out there, I'd love to hear from you. Thank you for reading my ad, have a nice day and take care.

[imastawka]

Even deja vu is not what it used to be

[tcmsecretuseid]

Gottabecareful, and azure, my response was not for your post. In fact, if you click on your post above mine, I gave you a kudo. 

The nasty post  is gone. 

Just my luck. LOL. Since I'm not a button pusher, I don't expect my posts to look as if they are out of context... when I click the reply button. 

[tcmsecretuseid]

Thank you Joono, you are correct. 

[freddie*rooster]

Let me explain my previous post.

Due to my many long years of hanging out on the ebay boards when I read the OP's message it was like deja vu I swear I have read this same message on I think it was chin wag many years prior to this latest thread. I of course can't be sure if it was the same ID or in fact if my recollection is correct, but when I read the OP message it struck me as being something I have read previously. I'm not making judgements of the OP just exercising my memory.

[lloydslights]

Freddie, you well may be correct.  Maybe the OP had moved to NSW and experienced a similar need years ago.  Now she has moved to VIC and used the ad (with age adjustment)  to meet people once again.  (Benefit of doubt) 

I was wondering why the married couple had moved.  Perhaps he has been transferred due to work.  Maybe his work is so "hard" mentally or physically, that he is finding it tiresome to socialize. Or he needs a rest from people (if his work is in retail, I don't wonder).

If he can deal with and provide the necessaries for 3 cavaliers in his life/home, he can't be too bad a person, surely.  

Just some thoughts.

DEB

[shepherdsrule]

Sorry tcm, I don't post often, and I am rarely disruptive when I do and I honestly thought you had replied to me and were accusing me of trolling. (which I guess in a roundabout way I do, but all in a good cause I assure you).

I spend most of my time 'lurking' and reporting members who are obviously doing the wrong thing - as in buying and selling, hijacking accounts etc, but now and then I come to the boards and post or read various threads, from those threads I can usually spot a trouble maker and if I do, on occasion, I will speak up to call attention to the disruptive members that seem to love coming here.......

other times I just let others I know (via PM) what I have spotted and keep myself to myself...

No hard feelings I hope

[jean2579]

Gottabecareful. Are you an official eBay policeman or self appointed. Just curious.

[aps1080]

Sounds to me like self appointed.

Now I know who probably reports some of my posts since I would fall into one of his categories !

Has to get others to fight his battles for him.

[iapetus_rocks]

hey, if you want to know who reports posts here, then just make a post about how much you dislike people who report people's posts and then . . . look at who gives you kudos for saying so. 😉

[aps1080]

I don't worry about gutless wonders, they normally out themselves at some point,

or you can tell by the mods message timestamp.