After several hours during the week clearing and cleaning up a messy garden my day started like this
I was much the same lloyds as far as judgements go, and we probably let things go on a bit long with my sisters family assuming that the problems were related to their early years, lack of discipline etc,etc...we just thought the new environment would change things enough.
I now realise the ritalin doesnt actually stop the naughtiness so much as allow the child to focus and concentrate in environments where its required, school of course, which in turn curbs the frustration and anger they often feel (which they dont understand) which stops them from lashing out and being restless.
Thats sort of my take on it based on how I see it working so far.
These are really intelligent kids who arent going to get the right start in life if they cant cope in a classroom situation, ritalin helps them cope. My nephew who is 7 had no friends until he started ritalin, now he has kids running to greet him every morning when he gets to school.
A change for the nephew already, wonderful. For him as well as his carers and siblings.
I'm sure a more stable homelife will contribute to the childrens' wellbeing.
Maybe there was some "copy cat" behaviour along with the frustration of needing glasses affecting the niece, too.
I am supposing some professional guidance for them to help themselves is on the agenda for the future. Their natural intelligence will be helpful for the progress and for them to find their niche in life, most likely.
I admire your strength to help your extended family. 
DEB
