My racist boyfriend ...

[krylekathe1]

So my boyfriend is black.
I am white.

He recently told me he only dates white chucks as black chicks are not attractive. I told him that he shouldn’t think or say things like that because it’s racist.

He insists because he is black it’s nor racist.

I said if you reversed it & a white guy said he didn’t like black chicks would it be racist & he agreed it would but insists as a black man nothing he says can be racist.

It’s really aggravating me.

How can I explain to him his argument is stupid?

[domino-710]

I think your ' racist ' boyfriend has a sense of humour.

[not_for_sale]

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@icyfroth wrote:

"If the reverse was a white man saying it about black "chicks" it would be considered racist".

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I agree. But either way it may be racist and it may not. It all depends on where he's coming from. I think too much of a big deal is made about this type of thing these days and people sometimes read things into other people's statements which don't belong. Your and his views on racism might be different and that's ok IMO. If he's not a racist in other ways, and it's otherwise not interfering with your relationship, then why not just enjoy each other for who you both are.

[kopenhagen5]

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@krylekathe1 wrote:
Why should I accept him as he is if I can improve him?

Much rather bend a man to my will than let him think for himself.

And of course he thinks i’m attractive; I am attractive.

😂😂😂

Although he did ask if I’ve ever considered getting a boob job and I was like ‘dude, I’m an E to F cup. How much larger could I go?’ .... 🤣🤣🤣. Maybe he meant reduction?

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Now the thread just looks like a wind up. 

[bright.ton42]

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@davidc4430 wrote:

well, i guess we all like what we like, with me its a girl who is

breathing.

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Ooh that's racist towards that aren't breathing

[tasfleur]

[janeababe]

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@bright.ton42 wrote:

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@davidc4430 wrote:

well, i guess we all like what we like, with me its a girl who is

breathing.

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Ooh that's racist towards that aren't breathing

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errr...no.... thats called discrimination 

[sandypas]

Tones of Pink Poodle??

[freddie*rooster]

Not one of your better threads but you've still got IT 

[janeababe]

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@krylekathe1 wrote:
Why should I accept him as he is if I can improve him?

Much rather bend a man to my will than let him think for himself.

And of course he thinks i’m attractive; I am attractive.

😂😂😂

Although he did ask if I’ve ever considered getting a boob job and I was like ‘dude, I’m an E to F cup. How much larger could I go?’ .... 🤣🤣🤣. Maybe he meant reduction?

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LOL... funny 

I once had an old War Army Matron as a client. She had a saying, that I think is very relevant here.

she'd say:  SELF PRAISE IS NO RECOMMENDATION!!!

Perhaps you could write that on a piece of paper and staple it to your size F bra!

Do you actually know the meaning of bra cup sizes?  I didnt invent this of course, but I found it  ... errrr.... acurate to a degree. 

A = Adorable

B = Brainy

C = Catch of the Century

D = Delightfully Dumb

E = Enormously stupid
F = Forget it.... all boob, no brains!

   

[freddie*rooster]

high five Sandy