My racist boyfriend ...

So my boyfriend is black.
I am white.

He recently told me he only dates white chucks as black chicks are not attractive. I told him that he shouldnโ€™t think or say things like that because itโ€™s racist.

He insists because he is black itโ€™s nor racist.

I said if you reversed it & a white guy said he didnโ€™t like black chicks would it be racist & he agreed it would but insists as a black man nothing he says can be racist.

Itโ€™s really aggravating me.

How can I explain to him his argument is stupid?
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@janeababe wrote:



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Although he did ask if Iโ€™ve ever considered getting a boob job and I was like โ€˜dude, Iโ€™m an E to F cup. How much largerDo you actually know the meaning of bra cup sizes?  I didnt invent this of course, but I found it  ... errrr.... acurate to a degree.  Man Very Happy

 

A = Adorable

B = Brainy

C = Catch of the Century

D = Delightfully Dumb

E = Enormously stupid
F = Forget it.... all boob, no brains!

 

Man LOL  Man LOL  Man LOL

 

 




G = Gravity won. RIP Smiley LOL

 

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Hestia Bra slogan........

 

Holds

Every

Size

Ti*t

In 

Australia.

 

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Pink Poodle was my old ID.

Is that a true fact?

Or an alternative fact?
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And itโ€™s not a windup.

I happen to have a crazy interesting life.
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Someone somewhere, probably cares, but I am not that person.......

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@krylekathe1 wrote:
Why should I accept him as he is if I can improve him?

Much rather bend a man to my will than let him think for himself.

And of course he thinks iโ€™m attractive; I am attractive.

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Although he did ask if Iโ€™ve ever considered getting a boob job and I was like โ€˜dude, Iโ€™m an E to F cup. How much larger could I go?โ€™ .... ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ. Maybe he meant reduction?

Pictures, or..it never happened


Signatures suck.
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@krylekathe1 wrote:
Pink Poodle was my old ID.

Is that a true fact?

Or an alternative fact?

 

 And itโ€™s not a windup.

I happen to have a crazy interesting life.


I reckon you forgot your password. And are you calling your relationship with your boyfriend crazy? Only Pink Poodle would say that. Smiley Wink

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lol, we've seen Pink Poodles photos joz Smiley Wink.

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@not_for_sale2017 wrote:

@icyfroth wrote:

"If the reverse was a white man saying it about black "chicks" it would be considered racist".

 


I agree. But either way it may be racist and it may not. It all depends on where he's coming from. I think too much of a big deal is made about this type of thing these days and people sometimes read things into other people's statements which don't belong. Your and his views on racism might be different and that's ok IMO. If he's not a racist in other ways, and it's otherwise not interfering with your relationship, then why not just enjoy each other for who you both are.


"But either way it may be racist and it may not."

 

It's definitely racist. I've known people like this and every single one of them was a major racist'. When a person claims they can't be racist because they are "insert race" what they are doing is making an excuse for every racist comment/act they've commited and will commit before hand.

 

There isn't a single race on this planet that can't be a racist. As a matter of fact, we're all racist to a degree. People need to admit that before we can get past it. 

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@kopenhagen5 wrote:

@krylekathe1 wrote:
Why should I accept him as he is if I can improve him?

Much rather bend a man to my will than let him think for himself.

And of course he thinks iโ€™m attractive; I am attractive.

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Although he did ask if Iโ€™ve ever considered getting a boob job and I was like โ€˜dude, Iโ€™m an E to F cup. How much larger could I go?โ€™ .... ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ. Maybe he meant reduction?

Now the thread just looks like a wind up. Smiley Frustrated


Hmmm. Maybe I should have read that before responding. Smiley Embarassed

 

 

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