My turn to Vent

[grandmoon]

I have been with my OH since 1988.  He retired last October since then his sister has been trying to talk him into going home to live.  He has been in Australia since 1971.  He doesn't want to go home to live.  His sister wants him to buy a unit at home for her to live in Oh boy the emotion blackmail she has been applying is unbeliveable.  I am so angry as the unit she wants him to buy her will take all his super and in buy it it will effect his pension.  She still wants him to buy it for her.

He is now saying that it means he will have to go back to work again.

[twyngwyn]

where is 'home'? What is the culture?

[sandym3369]

Who does she think she is. Sounds like it is just all about her.  Time to tell her straight not hogging back home. And not buying her somewhere to live . Why should you suffer in life for her. 

[purple_haize]

He should tell her firmly NO.

Where is home?

[kengillard]

agree with all the above......need some more info?

[grandmoon]

Home is Croatia

[azureline**]

Since you are a couple, won't this also affect you and your pension? and your security?

I think she is very rude.

[purple.cow]

Home is Croatia

That bit of info speaks volumes 😞

[purple_haize]

Hasnt she got a husband?

I dont know much about Croatia, but is it something that is generally done over there, what she is wanting?

[grandmoon]

Since you are a couple, won't this also affect you and your pension? and your security?

I think she is very rude.

I have a superannuation pension so it won't effect mine.  I have been argueing with him about her POOR ME attitude.