People who have been divorced.

[the_bob_delusion]

Who's fault was it?

[azureline**]

Whose fault.

[grandmoon]

Why do you need to know ???

[annies_fancy_dress]

What a silly question, there are always two sides to a story and nobody is perfect OR completely to blame in any relationship.

So many people marry thinking things will be perfect after the wedding.

NEWS FLASH

After the wedding is when the real work begins.

[the_bob_delusion]

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@annies_fancy_dress wrote:

What a silly question, there are always two sides to a story and nobody is perfect OR completely to blame in any relationship.

So many people marry thinking things will be perfect after the wedding.

NEWS FLASH

After the wedding is when the real work begins.

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Are you saying both parties are equally at fault or one is predominantly the cause?

[kyliecrv]

Totally his 😛

I'm looking forward to getting the actual 'divorce' this year! Been separated 2yrs in August.

[soul_art]

I'd say that 80% of the time it's both partners at fault.  The wrongs done by one partner can be a reaction to something done by the other partner, whether that person acknowledges that, is another thing.

Alcohol can play a big part.

[*crikey*mate*]

If we ever get divorced, it'll be totally his fault.

[kennedia_nigricans]

it's the womans fault cos she didn't have the sense to pick a good guy but went for the "interesting/exciting" (macho) bleep.

yes, i think it's the woman who picks then man and it's usually not good when it's the other way round cos men are shallow and just go for the pretty face.

[2106greencat]

Does there have to be an 'at fault' partner ?

Some couples simply drift away from one another, some just split amicably and are better friends for it.

Very ambiguous question matthew_mark_luke_and_nosy