on 09-04-2021 11:05 PM
Wow been some years from my last visit, this place is a devastated landscape ! so sterile !
I was thinking of back in the day and the great laughs we had and thought of the old posters.
Lot of water gone under the bridge, all the hatchets would be well buried by now.
Are there any left ? am I all that's left ? anyway hello to any of the old guard, cheers Yibs !
on 20-04-2021 07:38 AM
The hatchets are very close to the surface.
on 20-04-2021 08:25 AM
@icyfroth wrote:The hatchets are very close to the surface.
Judging from the private messages I have received over the last six months, there is a small group led by one particular member who has driven a lot of regular posters away. They where leaving in droves even before the recent changes. Its not clever or fun or board argy bargy, its just plain nasty.
A couple of cool heads sounded the warning trumpets awhile ago, but the culprits would'nt pull their heads in and the results are there for everyone to see in this years roll call..
on 20-04-2021 08:35 AM
cham you should report PM's, that is not on and I reported 3 I got from a resident troll
Icy, as for hatchets I am unsure, but then I can a bit dim at times
on 20-04-2021 09:08 AM
@katistrophik wrote:cham you should report PM's, that is not on and I reported 3 I got from a resident troll
It wasnt the resident troll contacting me through PM's, it was long standing, well known posting id's that have left due to the deteriating standards on the boards. Where once there was some wit and general argy bargy, now there is just pile on's and blatant nastiness led by one particular poster. Its impossible to have any form of intelligent discussion now as the little group just go straight to pedantry and pile ons.
I think you will find there is one particular regular poster ( their name keeps coming up ) who has done more damage to the boards in the last twelve months than the recent format changes.
The result is a boring monoculture of ideas shared between maybe a dozen regular posters.
on 20-04-2021 11:16 AM
The antidote to any perceived 'monoculture' surely lies in our own hands. All it would take would be for more posters to start more threads on more diverse subjects
on 20-04-2021 12:26 PM
Is there a new gang in town?! not again 🙄
Who's this leader of the pack, Chame?
on 20-04-2021 02:28 PM
I nodded off at the - ' wit & argy bargy '. 😴
on 20-04-2021 07:08 PM
@the_great_she_elephant wrote:
The antidote to any perceived 'monoculture' surely lies in our own hands. All it would take would be for more posters to start more threads on more diverse subjects
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In an ideal setting that would work. Sadly "diverse subjects" can't be discussed fairly due to a few things going on. I think that chameleon54 summed it up quite well in his two previous posts.
20-04-2021 07:16 PM - edited 20-04-2021 07:17 PM
I'm happy to provide some wit, to the best of my ability. I think I could manage that, but I don't promise to be the wittiest person in the world. For that, I would need to drink two glasses of red, and I don't drink two glasses of red very often. I'm only too cognisant of the fact that after dinner at a restaurant with a friend or friends, I'll be driving home afterwards, and that the police take a very dim view of the wittiest person in the world reinventing the road rules.
The argy-bargy - no.
Not my style. It's not too much to say I hate argy-bargy. A good debate, even a robust difference of opinion, yes. But pointless and offensive and aggressive verbal exchanges... no. That's not how I want to live my life, either on the boards or off them.
on 20-04-2021 08:18 PM
@joz*garage wrote:Is there a new gang in town?! not again 🙄
Who's this leader of the pack, Chame?
Sadly just the same tired old gang. Only problem is they have become a lot more active in trying to shut down any opinion they dont agree with and have become much more aggressive in the " pile ons and put downs."
Unfortunately it is probably just a reflection of the lowering of general standards and courtesies we see across wider society .
As for who the main offender is........I have been receiving messages of support for probably six months now from a number of other well known posters who have left the boards and while several names keep coming up, the sad, septic nature of one particular posters offerings seems to dominate the discussion of why they have left . ....😉
As for why I dont regularly contribute here anymore, its not because of layout changes to the boards, its just that I,ve got better things to do than get bogged down in discussions about pedantic little points, ( designed to deflect from the main topic ) and having to put up with personal attacks and pile ons from said member and her little group of school yard bullies.
Want to know why the boards are dying and diversity of opinion has long ago left the building ? Take a look around past threads. Things wont improve while the problem is still around.