What are your thoughts

[crystal**flake]

On a 21 year old woman dating a 15 year old boy,,,,,,,, its wrong isn't it.

[daydream**believer]

"males are different and for many a 15 or 16 yo boy its their wildest dream come true"

And thats a problem. Many think, ohh its a boy and he would be thrilled to have a 21 yr old girlfriend and he probably gets big pats on the back by his mates.

Thats doesnt make it ok

[izabsmiling]

Control and concern are two different things AM3. 

[cherry*135]

From what has been explained to me by the local police...if the underage person is with someone less than 2 years older than them, they really cannot do anything unless the child gives statement. They won't investigate at all. If age gap is greater, they will investigate but again unlikely able to do anything without statement from child.

Yes, that has what has been posted here on CS before from other parents as well, with real life experience with this topic.

As to the question in a previous post - what are we to do... give an opinion asasked: is it wrong or not? The OP did not ask for advice on how to handle this set of circumstances.

Circumstances that we know little detail of so difficult to give advice anyway.

[cherry*135]

Control and concern are two different things AM3. 

WHO CARES:^O

The post wasn't worthy of quoting.

[everything*that*i*ever*wanted]

From what has been explained to me by the local police...if the underage person is with someone less than 2 years older than them, they really cannot do anything unless the child gives statement. They won't investigate at all. If age gap is greater, they will investigate but again unlikely able to do anything without statement from child.

Yes, that has what has been posted here on CS before from other parents as well, with real life experience with this topic.

As to the question in a previous post - what are we to do... give an opinion asasked: is it wrong or not? The OP did not ask for advice on how to handle this set of circumstances.

Circumstances that we know little detail of so difficult to give advice anyway.

I was pretty sure I did give my opinion.

[lionrose.7]

LOL I dont think the Op wanted a CP Novel, think a simple yes or no :^O

[izabsmiling]

It is a discussion A3 .As we have no specific details in the OP (we don't even know if it is about an actual situation ) The Op can read whatever she wishes as can we all.

[izabsmiling]

Lion, this is an open thread on a public forum is it not ?

[lionrose.7]

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I__I___I__I___I  My Brick wall :^O

[cherry*135]

No, it is a closed thread, on a private forum. [joke]

Love lives - I wasn't critizising your post... it was a good post giving relevant, up- to-date, real life experience info from the police about this topic. Stuff parents of teens should be aware of.