What are your thoughts

[crystal**flake]

On a 21 year old woman dating a 15 year old boy,,,,,,,, its wrong isn't it.

[**meep**]

rather 20th  century.

should have been: emailorderbride or ebaybride.

next time if i don't forget.

wasn't my idea anyway. our "beloved" neighbour called me that.

did you tell your neighbour you were not from eastern europe?

[mailorder.bride*]

he put swastica flags in the window facing our house. 😐

[**meep**]

whoa!!!!  try to keep away somehow, he doesn't sound stable

[mailorder.bride*]

no he is a bit mad. and he threatened us with violence.

luckily he printed that on paper and left it in our side garden LOL

[**meep**]

i imagined him to be some very old, lonely man.

do you know what his problem is?  or is he just mad?  any chances of him moving?

[j*oono]

no he is a bit mad. and he threatened us with violence.

luckily he printed that on paper and left it in our side garden LOL

That was years ago wasn't it?  Haven't you sorted it out yet?

Not that I want to become part of the feeding frenzy that this thread has become :_|

😛

[mailorder.bride*]

just mad i would say. rather...extrovert. no chances that he moves.

but we have it on paper.

AND. i am 1.5 m, hubby is old. doesn't look good to any judge to beat up tiny woman/old man.

apart from that we wrote him that these threads are noted and will be given to the authorities if necessary.

i think that solved it.

not the mad-neighbour problem, but i think he knows that that was a mistake and that he can't really become violent now that we have evidence.

[mugssy65]

I was dating a 21 year old at 15, yes I slept with him after a while.

About ten years ago I met a boy who was very advanced physically for his age, my son competed against him at bmx, he seemed in a huge hurry to grow up, he left school at 14 to become a bricky, was always with older kids. At 15 he had a 21 year old girlfriend at 16 they had set up house together at 17 and 3/4 he died in a tragic accident, I'm glad he experienced life.

[icyfroth]

Some teens are more 'forward' than others that is for sure, but all of them?

Not all, no.

The example given by the OP is thankfully fairly exceptional.

[izabsmiling]

As a women I can't understand a women being interested in a 15 year old boy .I doesn't seem normal to me ?.A 15 year old girl with an older boy/man I can understand.Having been a 15 year old girl 15 year old boys generally seemed very immature in comparision to the girls of the  same age.I suppose we all need to ask ourselves if that was our 15 year old boy how would we feel about them dating a 21 year old or rather a 21 year old dating them.

Yoda, You shook your head back there.Some argued strongly that it would do no psychological harm.There have been studies that show otherwise.I found them interesting .Also of interest imo is that women as young as 20 are being charged .

Crystal, do you know the 21 year old ?