on 11-09-2015 07:56 PM
This from men who didnt have sex yet..
Catholics can now remarry after they are divorced, senior cardinals say... but only if they abstain from sex Proposal was put forward by a group of 11 senior Catholic leaders Made it as backlash against Pope Francis’ attempt to give divorcees a fast-track route to forgiveness Likely to add to the confusion and pain felt by many divorced Catholic Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3230133/Catholics-remarry-divorced-senior-cardinals-say-abst...on 14-09-2015 06:42 PM
"not sure what the statistics are regarding
institutional responses to child sexual abuse
but most of child sex abusers are family
members"
14-09-2015 06:48 PM - edited 14-09-2015 06:50 PM
I lost my post, so will redo it.
While those statistics may be valid in the secular world, they should not even exist in the world of religions/churches.
What was it in the christian bible again? "Suffer the children to come unto me" said the person of Jesus.
'Suffer' became the operative word towards those youngsters who now suffer all their lives over the abuse they suffered.
Makes me feel ill to think about it.
May those particular men of the cloth and those who covered up for them, and still do, see hell.
on 14-09-2015 06:55 PM
While those statistics may be valid in the secular world, they should not even exist in the world of religions/churches.
they should not exist full stop.
if we can't trust the police -
what makes you think we can trust
those who hide behind religions?
14-09-2015 07:06 PM - edited 14-09-2015 07:06 PM
I have no need to research anything nor am I ignorant of the FACTS re the RC church
BTY The RC church is denomination NOT a religion ... but you knew that lol
on 14-09-2015 07:07 PM
That's right, they should not exist full stop, no argument with that. I'm not discussing police, and I don't know who "we" are as far as the police are concerned, I don't speak for how others feel about that.
My point about those who administrate the church, is that they are supposedly those who stand in front of the altar, emanate prayer, humility, kindness, counselling and 'god' love towards their parishioners ... the young, the vulnerable, weak, sick etc etc etc ...... not be abusing powerless, harmless and innocent children.
Yes, I know in one particular church, not all priests are/were involved, how horrible for them to have to take the brunt of the reputation for that church and their poor followers with it.
on 14-09-2015 07:10 PM
@azureline** wrote:
@bushies.girl wrote:The RC seems to make up the rules to suit itself .... one of the most corrupt denominations around
Generally, all Churches do that......... just like groups, clubs etc.
i hear some founders of friendship groups
can be very dictatorial
14-09-2015 07:15 PM - edited 14-09-2015 07:16 PM
"hear some founders of friendship groups can be very dictatorial"
Not quite the same as sexual abusers though, at least there is always the freedom with friendship groups to walk away safely and without physical harm, so not sure that deflection has any meaning.
on 14-09-2015 07:17 PM
That's right, they should not exist full stop, no argument with that. I'm not discussing police, and I don't know who "we" are as far as the police are concerned, I don't speak for how others feel about that.
"we" are the public who the police are
supposed to protect, obviously, yet they
are not immune to corruption and child
abuse coverups.
a church is just another institution run
by people. no different to any others -
is what i'm saying.
on 14-09-2015 07:18 PM
I'll say goodnight now, hope everyone has a happy and not too busy evening. Lots of work to do here, hoping to be finished by midnight ... xxx
on 14-09-2015 07:24 PM
@tasfleur wrote:"hear some founders of friendship groups can be very dictatorial"
Not quite the same as sexual abusers though, at least there is always the freedom with friendship groups to walk away safely and without physical harm, so not sure that deflection has any meaning.
no deflection at all.
my response was to the comment about
churches etc making up their own rules
and the follow up comment