After selling an item. Am i allowed to ask the buyer to send the payment via bank transfer

[musye-58]

i want to see my item and have the money sent directly to my bank account. and it will be posted out to the buyer. is that allowed? 

[papermoon.lady]

Not to mention that asking AFTER a sale is even more suspicious. It is difficult to imagine anybody would accept, even if you offer a discount, like you did with that buyer who left the neg.