on โ08-08-2014 12:40 PM
on โ08-08-2014 01:05 PM
When I was a Newbie,I soon learnt that you need to thicken your skin, if you want to ask questions on these boards.
Don't let them worry you. Sometimes they do come up with a good idea, albeit put in an undiplomatic or unkind way.
Or you could do what I've soon others do .... Ask your question, and follow it with "Please don't bother replying .... and then a list of
those who have annoyed you" HA HA!
โ08-08-2014 01:16 PM - edited โ08-08-2014 01:18 PM
on โ08-08-2014 01:17 PM
โ08-08-2014 01:23 PM - edited โ08-08-2014 01:25 PM
Yep, you need to have thick skin allright when your being drawn a quartered. Some of them revel in tearing you to pieces as you cant see them and they often use unrelated ids to their main business and often they simply just get your post all wrong as they havent gotten to know your ( write language) . You need to stick around and keep on keeping on or in some cases just opt out of certain Boards as there can be some insecure Pirahna types just waiting for a new "kid on the block"
But generally every one wants to help you as thats helping others who have similar problems.
I have only been on the forums since April / May this year and found it very Clicky but at the same time learnt more in that short time than the 10 years I have been with ebay
โ08-08-2014 01:33 PM - edited โ08-08-2014 01:35 PM
It's simply not possible to moderate or dictate response to a public thread (unless you have actual mod power), nor what issues will catch the attention of other people, leading to what they comment on.
You have to use your own filters, take what's helpful from the responses - if something is polite and/or constructive...
If something is - to you - rotten egg-y.... near as I can tell, it's better for everyone if you don't crack it.
on โ08-08-2014 01:50 PM
True DG.
Personally I do crack it from time to time
on โ08-08-2014 03:06 PM
A quick cautionary tale...
Effect:
Cause:
Moral: Rotten eggs are bad, but you can deal with them easy enough if you have to. Beware the greater dangers that often go unseen and have powers most normal folk aren't equipped to deal with. ๐
on โ08-08-2014 03:11 PM
I do understand because I encountered a few when I first started frequenting the sellers forum. There are people from all walks of life on here, with different personalities and initially I felt a bit narky about it, but I just learned to ignore those comments if they weren't constructive. I think occasionally with some people, what they want to say, isn't what comes out in text. Sometimes it's hard to write down what you mean. Sometimes people try to leave a sarcastic comment and it comes out all wrong and comes across as a nasty message. I have been guilty of that. I have also been guilty of being a bit un-nice myself and not realised until someone pulled me up on it (by which time it is too late to edit it out of your message)
Yes, you were a seller in 2005. It seems you haven't sold on here since 2005. There has been a LOT of changes to eBay since 2005. The bad eggs know that and have even had to correct other sellers that have had a break and returned, not realising the rules had changed and were trying to follow the rules of when they sold before.
Onward and upward. Even if the bad eggs think you should already know the answers, a constructive answer to questions can help other newbies out. Sometimes it's much easier to ask a question on here, than sit there for hours trying to find the answer in the help pages.
on โ08-08-2014 04:26 PM