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saarzi
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Why do so many buyers wait 3-4 days to pay for something (by Paypal) that costs $1.50?

 

Waiting til payday?  lol Drives me nuts!

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fair bit of unneccesary angst against the OP in my opinion.

 

I agree that its disgraceful that people take 3-4 days (sometimes up to 8 days.. or not at all) to pay for items.

eBay isnt a lay-by or raincheck service

 



really .... "disgraceful that people take 3 or 4 days"

 

my goodness .... as a buyer I am insulted by this comment.

 

I often don't pay a seller until day 3 or 4 after my original purchase  - I use this time to check out if a seller lists other items I might be interested in purchasing to take advantage of combined post.

 

Or if I am very busy (which I frequently am) wait til I am less busy to look through their other listings at a more leisurely pace.

  


as a seller i am insulted that way too many buyers take their sweet time to pay for an item... or not pay at all... and it happened WAY too often

 

Just for the record when i had people paying 3-4 or 8 days after.. i hardly ever received a message from the buyer letting me know when (or if) they were going to pay, or their reasons... 95% of the time i would hear nothing at all even when i messaged them to remind them.

 

The sob stories or weak excuses i would get from buyers as to why they havent paid yet were amazing. I could write a book on them.

 

combining postage is a moot point for me as all my listings are free postage but i still dont see it as a valid point to make a seller wait 4 days for a payment.

 

I am a firm believer that if you buy something, you pay straight away. I buy lots on ebay and i always pay straight away

I dont think its too much to ask. This is why i implemented the immediate payment option. Has it hurt my sales? not at all


disappointing you did not bother to read my post - it reflects buying patterns that I do not believe are disrepectful in any way.

 

The issue of non payment are a different issue all together. 

 

My own buying behaviour reflects that of others - of that I am confident. 

 

your narrow view will only serve to limit your sales IMO ... and increase your level of annoyance LOL

 

 

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you have your opinions and i have mine. i dont think 3-4 days to pay is reasonable... and you do

so be it

 

as for levels of annoyance and limiting sales? well as i said my sales havent suffered at all since i implemented the requires immediate payment option, and theres no annoyance because i dont have to wait for payment, and dont have to worry about UIDs anymore

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@Anonymous wrote:

 

I am a firm believer that if you buy something, you pay straight away. I buy lots on ebay and i always pay straight away

I dont think its too much to ask. This is why i implemented the immediate payment option. Has it hurt my sales? not at all


Yes and you have indicated your set up of listings require immediate payment.  Fair enough.  This is consistent with my advice to other posters on this thread.  Not sure what your issue actually are in relation to the OP ?

 

My comments in this thread directly relate to sellers that have terms and conditions that indicate that longer time frames (3 days in the OP case) are acceptable to the seller - and then those very same sellers with those particular conditions outlined in their listings - have a whinge and express annoyance when buyers adhere to the very terms and conditions they have determined to communicate to their buyers.

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yes and of that i agree.. if you state that in your terms and conditions then yes.. you cant whine about it
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I agree that if there is an immediate payment required option, for some sellers it could be worth checking out.

 

It could be that not every seller is aware of it. I know there are lots of other terms/conditons/situations on ebay that both buyers and sellers aren't always aware of so this could be another one of them.

 

If the seller says in her ad that people have up to 3 days to pay and a lot of buyers take 3-4 days to pay, then all of them are taking it to the limit and some are in fact going over her limit (though not ebay's).

 

This might seem off topic but maybe it might help people to think of it from this perspective: I often shop online from a couple of other sites. Their terms and conditions-well, one of them says to allow up to 3 weeks for delivery, another calculates standard delivery as being in 10 business days.

But lately I have been finding the first site is routinely getting things to me in a week and the second site sometimes has things to me in 4 days. Now, how do you think that makes me feel? For those who can't guess, I feel really pleased and relieved to have my goods.Woman Very Happy

 

So I am guessing it works the reverse way too, for sellers on ebay. Ebay may allow buyers up to 4 days in which to pay but sellers, being human, are probably going to feel a bit chuffed when payment comes in earlier & they are not kept waiting till the last minute. Stands to reason, human nature.

 

 

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So I am guessing it works the reverse way too, for sellers on ebay. Ebay may allow buyers up to 4 days in which to pay but sellers, being human, are probably going to feel a bit chuffed when payment comes in earlier & they are not kept waiting till the last minute. Stands to reason, human nature.

 

 


.....and thats the cruxt of it right there, so if you are selling on Ebay, you know the rules, regulations, conditions set out in Ebays terms and conditions for sellers/buyers... so why whinge about buyers taking 3-4 days to pay?  (even if it is only $1.50)

If Sellers dont like it, then dont sell on Ebay! Its not rocket science, and lets face it.... the OP IS GETTING PAID, so I find her topic both insulting to her buyers, and to the intelligence of the sellers on this board! Plain and simple.


Either she wants the sale or she doesn't, but there is absolutely no need to complain about buyers who are paying for items within the Ebay set time frame.  Talk about ungrateful!



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Ebay was never set up with the intention that people pay immediately so you can't compare it to a b&m shop or a website where you put things in the cart and have to pay for it before it's considered to be bought.  I know more and more people pay immediately now, but most buyers would assume the rules are still the same as they used to be, ie. that's it's okay to pay a few days after purchase. 

 

Why this is seen as disgraceful or annoying by some is beyond me when buyers have never been told they SHOULD pay straight away.  The default is that it's okay to take your time, and if someone wants immediate payment then they have the option to tick the box.  Yes, it costs an extra 30c every time a buyer buys more than one item, but this is the price a seller pays for instant gratification.

 

I prefer to let my buyers relax a bit so I don't push them for payment.  There's enough hurry, hurry in the world without standing over my buyers and saying they have to pay straight away.  As far as I'm concerned there's no difference between having the item sitting in the cupboard and on the "sold but unpaid" pile.  I'm not going to get upset just because they may sit there for a few days.  If I've had an item for sale for 2 years, I'm certainly not going to get upset at having to wait a few days for payment!

 

As a buyer, I have an illness that means sometimes it takes more energy than I've got to contact a seller, or to pay for something.  If I know that's all I want from a seller I'll usually pay straight away, but if I want to look at their other items it may take me a while to do it, so things can get dragged out for a few days.  I'm a lot better now but I have a lot more patience with others because of what I've been through myself.

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Tell me about it and the those e cheques that take forever to clear or fail in the end , waste of time and money for sellers really 

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while echeques my annoy sellers they are very safe.....the buyer cannot do a chargeback through their bank as they can with an instant payment funded by a credit or debit card.

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@janeababe wrote:

@springyzone wrote:

 

 

So I am guessing it works the reverse way too, for sellers on ebay. Ebay may allow buyers up to 4 days in which to pay but sellers, being human, are probably going to feel a bit chuffed when payment comes in earlier & they are not kept waiting till the last minute. Stands to reason, human nature.

 

 


.....and thats the cruxt of it right there, so if you are selling on Ebay, you know the rules, regulations, conditions set out in Ebays terms and conditions for sellers/buyers... so why whinge about buyers taking 3-4 days to pay?  (even if it is only $1.50)

If Sellers dont like it, then dont sell on Ebay! Its not rocket science, and lets face it.... the OP IS GETTING PAID, so I find her topic both insulting to her buyers, and to the intelligence of the sellers on this board! Plain and simple.






As a seller and buyer, I'm not insulted by anything in the OP. I'm kinda bemused by some of the reactions to it, though.

 

There are no eBay terms or conditions that dictate a seller's payment timeframe, nor how long a buyer gets to pay. There is only a procedure that can not be initiated until 4 days after a sale. That doesn't "give" buyers 4-8 days to pay, it means there's no consequences for them if they take that long. I agree if a seller has in their terms a longer timeframe, it means buyers are meeting the terms and it's not really something to stress over, but to that I will just repeat I didn't get the impression the OP was raging against anything, despite the obviously provocative (to some) choice of words. 

 

I have never understood the "if you don't like something, bugger off" responses either, especially to what was admitted by the OP as, essentially, a minor issue. FGS, no one has to think every single little aspect of eBay, or trading partner behaviour, is perfect in order to justify staying here. 

 

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I get annoyed by heaps of things on eBay, sometimes paying buyers are the cause of my annoyance. Still here. Smiley Surprised
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